Who are you inviting to..............

Original post by Kimmypie143

Feb 02, 2009 03:40 PM

Your rehersal dinner? Sorry about all the different RD topics lol. I have many ?'s today lol.

I know when my cousin got married I wasnt in the BP and we werent invited to the rehersal dinner. But Im really close with my Moms side of the family and all theyre kids are in my RD so do I invite them all? and obvi BP & OOT guest but who else?

RitasEngaged Posted: Feb 02, 2009 08:04 PM

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BP and there other halfs (just learned that you had to invite them) parents and i guess grandparents

T E R I Posted: Feb 02, 2009 08:05 PM

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Posted by marrymybestfriend

Posted by T E R I

Being that we are planning on having it at our house as a small NYE party, we are inviting his parents, my mom, the BP and dates, his grandmother, and my OOT family that will most likely be staying with me

i will be there Teri!!! i cant wait!!!

sounds like a plan!!!!!

mikendeanna Posted: Feb 02, 2009 08:08 PM

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both sets of parents his grandma and all of the bridal party

StaceYums81 Posted: Feb 02, 2009 08:36 PM

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I will only have parents and bridal party. I'm not inviting the OOTs,,,

soonT0beMrsD Posted: Feb 02, 2009 08:37 PM

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trying to keep it as small as possible, def cant afford a huge dinner right before the wedding ! mostly just very close family, bridal party, and maybe an oot or other close friend

kimmaymb20 Posted: Feb 02, 2009 08:38 PM

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bridal party family and maybe some OOT guests

FallBride2010 Posted: Feb 02, 2009 10:35 PM

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Kimmypie143 Posted: Feb 03, 2009 11:15 AM

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Posted by FallBride2010

I'm a bridezilla...and am considering just the bridal party, my parents and grandparents. FH's parents arent helping with the wedding and dont care about the wedding...so dont feel the need to include them. Also dont think I will invite his sister, as she isnt in the wedding. We'll see if I change my mind...but at this point...I dont feel the need to have them there

Traci you sound like me Im in the same boat

FutureMrsKuehne Posted: Feb 03, 2009 11:23 AM

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Posted by JillandJoe

I am only inviting both of our parents, our wedding party (includes all siblings), wedding parties signifcant others. We gotta keep it simple.

Do you need to invite oot guests? We only have one couple and they staying with family who are not invuted to RD so we will prob not invite them.

this is exactly my situation....gotta keep it simple...my OOT family will be staying w/other family thats not invited to RD so its gonna be BP, parents, and BP guests....since FMIL is paying for it, if she decides to invite her OOT guests (who will be staying w/her) then i realy dont care cuz im not paying for it LOL

FallBride2010 Posted: Feb 03, 2009 11:30 AM

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Posted by Kimmypie143

Posted by FallBride2010

I'm a bridezilla...and am considering just the bridal party, my parents and grandparents. FH's parents arent helping with the wedding and dont care about the wedding...so dont feel the need to include them. Also dont think I will invite his sister, as she isnt in the wedding. We'll see if I change my mind...but at this point...I dont feel the need to have them there

Traci you sound like me Im in the same boat

Will you leave his parents out?? I bet FH's wont even care if I leave them out.

Jenna_and_John Posted: Feb 03, 2009 11:57 AM

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Hmm I was thinking of not inviting the bp with guests, wasn't sure if it was necessary. But from all the answers above it seems like it's common and should happen, not sure hmmm....