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Who do you invite to your bridal shower?

glinda_goodwitch Posted:

Who do you invite to your bridal shower?

Do you invite ALL women that will be invited to the wedding, or just ones you are close with?

How about bachelorette party? Do you invite everyone from the shower, or just close girlfriends? If you invite a girl to the bachelorette party, should she also be invited to the shower?
BHW Posted:

Re: Who do you invite to your bridal shower?

My mom/BMs invited my friends, close family members, FI's immediate family, and friends of my mom whom I have known most of my life to my shower. My close friends and FSIL were invited to my bachelorette party. I would invite someone to the shower if they were invited to the bachelorette party, but I wouldn't invite everyone from the shower to the bachelorette party.

MissingTheBGene Posted:

Re: Who do you invite to your bridal shower?

Shower: Close female friends, including FMIL, FSILs and other female family members. It doesn't have to be every female invited to the wedding.

Bachelorette Party: Depending on how you're spending it, it can be just you, your BP and a few close friends, or just you and your BP. If you plan on inviting someone to the B-party, I would guess it's because you're close with them (b-parties are more intimate than the shower), and they would be invited to the Shower.
glinda_goodwitch Posted:

Re: Who do you invite to your bridal shower?

Okay, that's what I thought. I actually think I want a fairly small bachelorette party.

littlebookworm4 Posted:

Re: Who do you invite to your bridal shower?

My BP and Mom and a few aunts are throwing the shower. I just gave them a list of all of the women invited to the wedding and their relationship to me and then they did the inviting. I haven't had it yet so I'm not sure how they did it.

Bach party wise it's only the BP since we're having a spa day.
candb Posted:

Re: Who do you invite to your bridal shower?


Posted by glinda_goodwitch

Do you invite ALL women that will be invited to the wedding, or just ones you are close with?

How about bachelorette party? Do you invite everyone from the shower, or just close girlfriends? If you invite a girl to the bachelorette party, should she also be invited to the shower?



I would invite only close friends and relatives to the shower. If it's someone you don't know (like a cousin's GF) it won't be fun for them.

For the bachelorette party, I would just have the BP and maybe some people I'm very close to.

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