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who else are we supposed to tip??
LaBellaVita622 Posted: Apr 09, 2009 09:58 PM+
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who else are we supposed to tip??

My fiance & I are paying for alot of the wedding ourselves & I am trying to figure out all expenses. but did not know who else were supposed to tip besides Maitre D.?? Is it a know fact to tip all of the vendors as well or is it just a 'nice gesture'...Also how much is each supposed to get??...thanks everyone :)
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rachel1124 Posted: Apr 09, 2009 10:18 PM+
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Re: who else are we supposed to tip??

Typically your suppose to tip people that do a service not a product. Like you don't tip the photographer but you tip the DJ. If someone is doing hair and make-up they should be tipped as well. ( This tip should be based on whether they are coming to you or your going to them and how many people they are doing.) Hope this helps.
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LaBellaVita622 Posted: Apr 09, 2009 11:13 PM+
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Re: who else are we supposed to tip??

i figured stuff like that, hair & makeup of course but some people on here say the photographer & videographer too?? thank you so much rachel though.. i think how you explained it makes alot of sense :)
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sophisticat13 Posted: Apr 09, 2009 11:42 PM+
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Re: who else are we supposed to tip??

Yes, most tip the photg and video. Also:

Maitre D'
Bridal attendant(s)
DJ/MC/band members
Floral if you are there when they are setting up- nominal delivery fee tip usually about $10
Makeup/hair stylists


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Espo22 Posted: Apr 09, 2009 11:45 PM+
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Re: who else are we supposed to tip??

from what ive seen most do tip photographer and videographer, I tipped mine too for my wedding.

Lets see who got tips day of

Photographer
videographer
dj
limo's
hair and make up
maitre'd
bridal attendants
flower delivery

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italgal Posted: Apr 10, 2009 08:37 AM+
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Re: who else are we supposed to tip??


Posted by rachel1124

Typically your suppose to tip people that do a service not a product. Like you don't tip the photographer but you tip the DJ. If someone is doing hair and make-up they should be tipped as well. ( This tip should be based on whether they are coming to you or your going to them and how many people they are doing.) Hope this helps.



Most people tip their Photographer/Video. I would not tip the owners. I would only tip the people providing the service.........Photographer , assistant, & Videographer. My Dad's good friend owned a studio years ago & told me that most of the time photographers are freelance people providing a service to the studios. They get a flat rate to do a wedding & that's it. It saves the studio $$$$ because they don't have to pay them all year. Freelance people only get paid when they work. Also, they have to pay their own taxes.
FH is a freelance writer. He has to pay his taxes quartly. The people he works for do not take taxes out of his pay.
I'm tipping:
Photo-$100.00
Assist-$50.00
Video-$100.00
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Riag24 Posted: Apr 10, 2009 11:53 AM+
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Re: who else are we supposed to tip??

Limo tip is usually included in the price - Anything after that is up to you but you dont have to
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rachel1124 Posted: Apr 10, 2009 01:07 PM+
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Re: who else are we supposed to tip??

Glad I could help a bit---I didn't say photographer because she is the owner--it's Imagine Studio which is her and her husband. Think of whoever is providing a service.
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mmm117 Posted: Apr 11, 2009 08:05 AM+
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Re: who else are we supposed to tip??


Posted by rachel1124

Glad I could help a bit---I didn't say photographer because she is the owner--it's Imagine Studio which is her and her husband. Think of whoever is providing a service.




Would you girls still tip your hair and makeup vendor even if they are the owners of their business and the only workers from their business thus 100% of their fee goes to them anyway??
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soontobemrsag Posted: Apr 11, 2009 09:20 AM+
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Re: who else are we supposed to tip??

See now i disagree - your already paying high prices for vendors - i dont see a need to tip them additionally. i mean especially if they are the owners.... If the hair/make up girls come to my house then i will tip them but if we all go to them - i dont think i will. The limos - tip is included - florist already included a set up & delivery fee & shes the owner.... The maitre d' yes of course i will tip - i dont know just my opinion!
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