Who initiates?

Original post by JimmysBride

Feb 24, 2005 10:49 AM

You know... which one of the two of you initiates intimacy more often? You or DH? Or does it alternate alot...

usuk2004 Posted: Feb 25, 2005 05:27 AM

Re: Who initiates?

Posted by ellengrisal

not me athough i wish it were!! sex is usually the furthest thing on my mind.

Wait a minute...we're talking about sex?

SeptWed Posted: Feb 25, 2005 09:49 PM

Re: Who initiates?

This usually bothers me that its usually 90% of the time me....but my DH has finally told me that its because he hates getting his hopes up and then if i don't want to then he gets all mad...so he has learned not to most of the time unless i want to initiate...sad but that is the life of a married couple who has been living together for years...but we still have it plenty.