Who is that one person from his family you can't stand and always throws a hindrance towards your wedding planning...

cmch1005 Posted: Apr 21, 2003 05:52 PM

Who is that one person from his family you can't stand and always throws a hindrance towards your wedding planning...

I actually have a couple of them from his side. I tend to loose it and don't know how to handle it. I end up getting him upset talking about it. He says I let everything bother me. It is hard sometimes I always say jealousy is an evil thing. Anyone seeing this kind of crap...

jenny2penny Posted: Apr 21, 2003 05:54 PM

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Jan60504 Posted: Apr 21, 2003 06:05 PM

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Fi's mom and sister can be like this. It's really frustrating because most of the time they're not involved in anything at all - they don't even know - they don't care about anything - so fine we do it all on our own (with my parents and siblings). Then all of a sudden they get all ticked off at FI for putting my family above his and put him on major guilt trips, etc. and then butt in and tell us what to do and disagree with everything that we've done or are planning to do - it's ALWAYS negative! Needless to say, FSI is NOT a BM. They make me really angry (cause they treat FI like dirt except when they want something or they get jealous) and they do this stuff to us just to make things difficult! If you remember, I posted not too long ago about FMIL insisting that if I didn't want the 32 kids from their side at the wedding then I had to find something to do with them (!) - that about says it all!

smooch Posted: Apr 21, 2003 06:09 PM

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FSIL - she has told the family things about me that are completely not true and I won't say the truth about her because I won't put her down to her own family. So they only hear these bad things about me and believe them because I won't tell them what really happened. I just have to hope that one day they will realize what REALLY goes on with her... I know some people outside her family have and they now know the real story.
FH says to just shrug it off and thinks I hold a grudge. I don't. It's sad really, she is sad. I just don't care for her or to be around her, but I don't hold a grudge. Though I would like to see things set right and for people to know the truth.

nrvbrd Posted: Apr 21, 2003 06:12 PM

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No one really.

I had words with his brothers once, but that is resolved.

Everyone is pretty much letting us do what we want, less the occasional opinion, but it is not that bad.

butterfly20 Posted: Apr 21, 2003 11:15 PM

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yes, we have a cousin who said he is dead to her, so we lucked out and she doesnt talk to us. shes just jealous cause she should have been married at her age already, she just keeps gaining weight, and her face is suffering

Helene718 Posted: Apr 21, 2003 11:41 PM

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Definitely. There is a certain someone who can't deal with the fact that I will be the center of attention on my wedding day. I'm just waiting to see what she pulls that day. Already spoke to the photographer and videographer about this too. I don't want her all over my video or in all of the pictures! Even now, when I talk about the wedding with FMIL she finds a way to interrupt and switch the topic so it is about her. GRRRRRRRR!!!! FH is willing to talk to her about it, but we both agree that it won't make a bit of difference.