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Who wants to come to the wedding???

Original post by mrspalomino148

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Soo FH didn't call his father and step mom on christmas to wish them a merry christmas, because we were going down the following day to surprise them in person, they got all bent out of shape and said the FH and I haven't talked to them in so long and were basically terrible people..

Huge Fight... There not coming and neither is that side of the family .. so now we have about 20 people not coming a week before the wedding yay! lol

Who would come to NJ for my wedding, no need for gifts, just party!!!!!!!

I'll love you all! lol
Mrs. V 2008

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I'm really sorry Mayghen !! thats awful! i wish i could come..

1nicetouch

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Im so sorry this happen to you Im kind of afraid that the same will happen to me since my mother disapproves of my FH but I told myself if she comes or not it will be my special day. Im here for you always and If you really want to invite me I will be there. I'll be the drunk black girl dancing all night. I love to party
LauraD419

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I'm so sorry this happened to you. I'm always up for the party though!!

Luvbsb4eva

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I'm so sorry that they are doing this to you and your FH! And I would definately come if I wasn't going to be back in Pittsburgh already!

Soon2BMrsD

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aww im really sorry to hear that but it almost sounds like your better off if they arent there although thats really sad! im always up for a party! let me know when and where! good luck with everything!

alymikewedding08

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I was MOH at my cousins wedding last year at Valley Regency.. and it was AMAZING!!! Literally one of the BEST weddings I have ever been to!

angl2001

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any news??

Wifeynella

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i really hope they come around but FH and i are free and we are get seat fillers =)

i hope it works out for the best. you deserve a stressfree wedding!
mrspalomino148

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SO the update on this is .. They are not coming to the wedding, his father and step mom as well as his family and the step mothers family, which means we lost 2 Bridesmaids, 1 groomsmen, 1 best man, and 1 reader. And a couple tables of people.


my final headcount is 81. My minimum is 100, and the Grand Marquis is calling me today to see what they can do about me having to pay the minimum vs. well i have no idea. Fingers crossed that they at most make us pay no more than 90 people

I'll let you all know by tonight what happened, and how many of you gorgeous girls, if your free of course, can share in our day with us

Love you all! Be back later, have to go pick up the wedding gown!!
Shell84

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Sorry to hear that
I hope the RH can work something out with you, families can be a pain sometimes.
sassygirl9

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Posted by futuremrspalomino

SO the update on this is .. They are not coming to the wedding, his father and step mom as well as his family and the step mothers family, which means we lost 2 Bridesmaids, 1 groomsmen, 1 best man, and 1 reader. And a couple tables of people.


my final headcount is 81. My minimum is 100, and the Grand Marquis is calling me today to see what they can do about me having to pay the minimum vs. well i have no idea. Fingers crossed that they at most make us pay no more than 90 people

I'll let you all know by tonight what happened, and how many of you gorgeous girls, if your free of course, can share in our day with us

Love you all! Be back later, have to go pick up the wedding gown!!



OMG I'm sorry you're going through this. I know your sensitivity must be heightened right now. So hang in there and as sad as you an dfh may be.....remember it's your day. Be selfish and know you are marrying the man you love.
They're going to regreat acting like this, it's not about them, it's about you. I don't know what the wedding has to do with you not calling them on x-mas, that just sounds so silly....
But anway, enjoy your day, don't let them ruin it as hard as it is
FinallyEngaged

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Posted by futuremrspalomino

SO the update on this is .. They are not coming to the wedding, his father and step mom as well as his family and the step mothers family, which means we lost 2 Bridesmaids, 1 groomsmen, 1 best man, and 1 reader. And a couple tables of people.


my final headcount is 81. My minimum is 100, and the Grand Marquis is calling me today to see what they can do about me having to pay the minimum vs. well i have no idea. Fingers crossed that they at most make us pay no more than 90 people

I'll let you all know by tonight what happened, and how many of you gorgeous girls, if your free of course, can share in our day with us

Love you all! Be back later, have to go pick up the wedding gown!!



I am so sorry hunny!!!!

On a total side note... how excited are you to be picking up your dress!!!!
MrsHtobe

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I am so sorry that you are going through this! Like I said yesterday, they are going to regret this forever! You are probably bettter without them there anyway, if they are just going to cause problems!

Yay for picking up your dress!
Lools

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Posted by futuremrspalomino

SO the update on this is .. They are not coming to the wedding, his father and step mom as well as his family and the step mothers family, which means we lost 2 Bridesmaids, 1 groomsmen, 1 best man, and 1 reader. And a couple tables of people.


my final headcount is 81. My minimum is 100, and the Grand Marquis is calling me today to see what they can do about me having to pay the minimum vs. well i have no idea. Fingers crossed that they at most make us pay no more than 90 people

I'll let you all know by tonight what happened, and how many of you gorgeous girls, if your free of course, can share in our day with us

Love you all! Be back later, have to go pick up the wedding gown!!



WOW I am SHOCKED to hear that they are sticking to their guns. How incredibly selfish and immature! Their true colors are really showing! You will still have a wonderful day! Don't let them ruin it, that's what they are trying to do!
queenbean

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They sound like miserable people. Just remember you are better to them... don't do anything to sink to their level. Enjoy your day- it's totally THEIR loss
MeaganAndJoeC

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I am so sorry to hear that ths is happening to you .. This is soo silly.. they feel quilty now how quilty are they going to feel when they dont come to your wedding and are in 0 pictures.. very selfish

msflesch

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Posted by xXxNovember08xXx

r u serious... !@?> but u suprised them... oh no,,,im so sorry



I think it was a long time coming, they are feeling like soo guilty that they re-did there whole home instead of helping us pay for the wedding, so they think we haven't been talking to them because of that, instead of the real reason that we just had finals lol



Tell them if you THINK we're not talking to you for that...how the heck do they think you guys will feel when FHs family isn't there?!?!?



I know, FH is so upset right now, but won't say it.. there to stubborn to call... but his dad has always been this way, doesn't care.



If you know FH is upset, why don't you call them. I know I know,,,,, they do suck but still his parents.
Things will never be good if they don't show up to the wedding.

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