Just curious...do your FH's put as much thought into the wedding as we do. Nothing personally happened to me I am just curious if they are as excited as we are. How often do they bring up the wedding in a day?
cds58019
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I think about my wedding every day. As for FH, maybe like every three days or so he'll say something about it. It's usually not much though. Myabe as it gets closer he'll get more excited.
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I think its funny how FH's dont show as much interest in a wedding as women do...its funny.
I wouldn't use the word 'excited' to decribe my fh when it comes to wedding planning, but he has definitely been involved! Initially he said 'whatever you want,' but now it's more like whatever I want, as long as he ok's it. Which is fine with me, I'm glad he cares! It is OUR wedding, right? Well...mostly mine.
eta - oh, and I would say he talks about our wedding a couple times a day, but mainly because I initiate. He never really brings it up on his own.
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My FH is VERY excited about the wedding. Granted, he doesn't do much for the planning. I make all the arrangements and appointments, but he comes to every appointment with me and makes all decisions also! He wants to be included in everything... I made the MISTAKE of booking the florist without him. He's still livid
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My FH is VERY excited about the wedding. Granted, he doesn't do much for the planning. I make all the arrangements and appointments, but he comes to every appointment with me and makes all decisions also! He wants to be included in everything... I made the MISTAKE of booking the florist without him. He's still livid
same here...although my FH did come to the florists with me....he comes to everything with me
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I wouldn't use the word 'excited' to decribe my fh when it comes to wedding planning, but he has definitely been involved! Initially he said 'whatever you want,' but now it's more like whatever I want, as long as he ok's it. Which is fine with me, I'm glad he cares! It is OUR wedding, right? Well...mostly mine.
eta - oh, and I would say he talks about our wedding a couple times a day, but mainly because I initiate. He never really brings it up on his own.
Good way of putting it. Involved is a better word :). My FH is defintely involved with all the planning, which I love!! He was there when I booked the photography and reception hall...I would have to be the one to get all the ideas and book the appointments but he then tags along hehe
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He's excited with how things are coming along, how much we've done and he's very happy with the vendors we've chosen. He doesn't have tons of input on the wedding, but he always gives his opinion on all final decisions. I love wedding planning so I basically narrow the choices to 2 or 3 and then get his opinion. The final choice is usually always mine.
JazzyT
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He does not show much interest
MnM52607
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He doesn't think about it constantly like I do But when it comes to making decisions, he wants to be involved.
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Darren is aces when it comes to our wedding! Always askes what we need to do, if theres anything we haven't ordered etc. Totally on top of things like I am, and I couldn't ask for more
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Not interested at all, but everytime we reach a month less, he will say 'x' months to the wedding.
AMANDA2378
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YEAH, HE DOESNT TALK ABOUT IT AS MUCH I WOULD LIKE TO!! BUT HES A MAN AND THEY DONT CARE TO MUCH FOR DETAIL!! JUST TELL ME WHEN & WHERE.....LOL HES EXCITED ABOUT IT, BUT AS FOR PLANNING.....
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Posted by bettybcafe
[Good way of putting it. Involved is a better word :). My FH is defintely involved with all the planning, which I love!! He was there when I booked the photography and reception hall...I would have to be the one to get all the ideas and book the appointments but he then tags along hehe
Same with my FH. I couldn't imagine booking anything without his input and he'd actually be really hurt if I did! It's nice because it feels like *our* wedding instead of like *my* wedding. Sometimes, of course, it's harder when we disagree but that's because I'm usually floating away from the budget and he has to tether me down. :)
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not mines
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FH wants to know what's going on all the time. I too make the appointments and arrangements and he comes with me. He likes to be involved especially when spending money is invovled.
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I agree that FH is very involved, but not super excited and constantly thinking about the wedding like me But he's been great with planning so far and always gives his opinion on everything
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He is involved with every decision. We booked all our vendors early on and I think he was more into the wedding then.
I'm constantly looking for ideas in bridal magazines and websites and think about the wedding all the time. He doesn't do that.
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My FH is going crazy!! He is loving this and cant wait until Sunday for the Bridal Extravaganza!!
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he is not too excited about the planning - every few weeks he will ask 'do i have to pay anything soon'
