Who's is up???? Pics in album help!

Jenn7982 Posted: Dec 13, 2010 12:22 AM

Who's is up???? Pics in album help!

I put pictures of my dress in my album. I just bought it yesterday, and i'm starting to freak out. I feel like i should call in the morning and cancel. Long story short I wanted different. Now I feel like I just got the ball gown that everyone's seen already. Please let me know honest opinions

MrsRtoBe11 Posted: Dec 13, 2010 12:26 AM

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im partial bc the bottom of your dress is exactly like mine, which im sure doesnt make you feel good since you said you ended up with somethin someone has already seen, but i def get the 'different' vibe from the dress. i think its beautiful!

Mommy2BeBride Posted: Dec 13, 2010 12:26 AM

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honestly, i LOVE the dress. but in the last picture you don't look too happy in that dress!
if you are really doubting it, maybe you should go look at a few more before you make the mistake of buying something you really don't like. Especially your gown, that's almost like the most important part!

spdy540 Posted: Dec 13, 2010 12:27 AM

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i think its beautiful its different enough to be unique with the way the bottom is but still very elegant. But you have to be happy with it.

kshea23 Posted: Dec 13, 2010 12:29 AM

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I'm up, and I personally love it! Especially the beaded detail on the bodice. It's so pretty.

But if your having any doubt, then maybe you should look for something else. You don't want to be second-guessing a dress and then it be too late. But I think its beautiful.

leesah85 Posted: Dec 13, 2010 12:31 AM

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I love your gown! Don't second guess yourself - you bought it for a reason! It's totally normal to second guess yourself - just be confident in your decision.

If you still feel this way in a few days, then I say go try on some more gowns and then put yours on last. If you don't get the feeling you got when you first purchased it, then you might want to start from square one

just be confident! It is gorgeous!

Jenn7982 Posted: Dec 13, 2010 12:36 AM

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Thanks girls! I feel better. I don't know why I start freaking out! I'm going to sleep on it now. Hopefully with some sleep i'll think clearer ;)

lilgem250 Posted: Dec 13, 2010 12:37 AM

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Personally I'm not a fan of those types of bottoms, however, I think you look amazing in that gown and I really like the bead work on the bodice. You need to be in what you feel works for you. I think you made a great choice and that the dress looks amazing on you!

cc2011 Posted: Dec 13, 2010 01:00 AM

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I really like the dress! Honestly, if I were in your shoes (I did this w/ my dress too), cancel it and try on a few more dresses. If you keep thinking about this dress you tried on then you know it's the one!!!
If you are second guessing yourself right now- trust me your gonna keep second guessing yourself...in my honest opinion, I think you need to try on a few more dresses just to make sure.

Long story short- found my dress on Sunday....freaked out, cancelled on Tuesday- went back about a 1/1/2 later and placed the order again. I absolutely love my dress...no hesitation anymore.

Sometimes you need to take a step back...
HTH

KN2011 Posted: Dec 13, 2010 01:03 AM

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I think its beautiful.. but you have to LOVE it.. if youre doubting it, call and ask them to hold off on ordering it. Maybe you can try on other things in the store.. and retry the dress again.

xoabxo Posted: Dec 13, 2010 01:12 AM

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I think it is beautiful as well!! But like everyone said if your not happy keep looking

PhyllisNJoe Posted: Dec 13, 2010 01:19 AM

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Oh it's beautiful! It looks so great on you too. Love Love Love the work on the bodice.

What did you think you wanted? a totally different style? Sometimes what we have in mind is the total opposite of what we wind up getting.

I say try it on again - try on other styles... you have to LOVE it.
It's the only wedding dress you'll ever wear.

JLWSJC Posted: Dec 13, 2010 01:54 AM

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I've been very adamant in my whole wedding planning process in making the details very personal to me and not having the same thing everyone else always has. Espcially my dres... I think my dress is a little different and reflective of me. So when you wrote you felt you got the ballgown everyone has seen already, I was expecting just that, the same beautiful but boring strapless dress every girl gets... but I was picturing a totally different dress!!

Your dress is beautiful and different and probably very personally fitting for you. I don't necessarily agree with the blanket advice 'keep trying on dresses' because some people will second guess themselves no matter what dress they choose or when they order it.
If this was 1 of the first 5 dresses you've tried on, I might tell you to cancel the order and keep trying. But if you tried on 10 or more and they were different styles and you liked this one enough to order it, this is probably your dress.

From an outsider's POV, the dress looks great on you and it's beautiful and not cookie cutter at all. I love it on you!

SimHawk8 Posted: Dec 13, 2010 02:10 AM

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Posted by AutumnMrs2011

honestly, i LOVE the dress. but in the last picture you don't look too happy in that dress!
if you are really doubting it, maybe you should go look at a few more before you make the mistake of buying something you really don't like. Especially your gown, that's almost like the most important part!

ITA. It's a beautiful dress but you don't look like you love it. You need to love it.

adelya21 Posted: Dec 13, 2010 04:25 AM

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I agree completely with this on every point!

Posted by JLWSJC

I've been very adamant in my whole wedding planning process in making the details very personal to me and not having the same thing everyone else always has. Espcially my dres... I think my dress is a little different and reflective of me. So when you wrote you felt you got the ballgown everyone has seen already, I was expecting just that, the same beautiful but boring strapless dress every girl gets... but I was picturing a totally different dress!!

Your dress is beautiful and different and probably very personally fitting for you. I don't necessarily agree with the blanket advice 'keep trying on dresses' because some people will second guess themselves no matter what dress they choose or when they order it.
If this was 1 of the first 5 dresses you've tried on, I might tell you to cancel the order and keep trying. But if you tried on 10 or more and they were different styles and you liked this one enough to order it, this is probably your dress.

From an outsider's POV, the dress looks great on you and it's beautiful and not cookie cutter at all. I love it on you!

angelatp Posted: Dec 13, 2010 05:37 AM

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I think your dress is gorgeous and different. I do agree with Jamie, I think for some people like myself I second guess EVERYTHING.

PRINCESSCUT Posted: Dec 13, 2010 07:26 AM

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I think its gorgeous but you have to love the dress.

My first dress ordered on a Saturday and by Sunday afternoon I was freakin out knowing I bought the wrong dress. So I callled the store and cancelled my ordered. Shopped around for a week and found another dress loved it, went home and slept on it and two days later bought my dress. No regrets since.

I say shop around, you have to LOVE your dress. If you are already having second thoughts then dont settle. Its the most important dress you will ever buy.