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who's your biggest wedding critic?

InLuvWithMyBF Posted:

who's your biggest wedding critic?

We all have one, the person that has something to say about everything in your wedding! who's yours? I have more than one! lol aren't I lucky?? haha

In no particular order:

FMIL
FSIL
Dad
Cousin

lol
ColliMac23 Posted:

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FMIL
My Sister (Good Intentions though Thank God for her really)
Chanwich Posted:

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probably my sister, although we just have COMPLETELY different tastes. she's definitely not mean about it though.

SoonToBeMrsFox Posted:

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i'm my biggest wedding critic; i'm starting to second guess everything!

K0ddie Posted:

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsFox

i'm my biggest wedding critic; i'm starting to second guess everything!



This!

Not that I don't trust myself. I just always get nervous when making big decisions. I need to trust myself more!
Jennielee15 Posted:

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsFox

i'm my biggest wedding critic; i'm starting to second guess everything!

THIS!!!
evita2781 Posted:

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my sisters - wait til they have to start planning! well one is planning right now so she can totally see now what i've been going through!!!

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

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Myself actually, no one else has given me negative feedback yet...
bebita0830 Posted:

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my sister...for sure!

InLuvWithMyBF Posted:

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lol it seems to me that everyone's biggest gripe is my selection of burnt orange as my main color. IT's a fall wedding! i love how it looks. its so nice! but I feel like i always have to explain myself. everytime someone asks me my colors and I say burnt orange and chocolate, i begin the sentence by saying 'remember its a fall wedding' lol like i have to justify my colors! grrr lol

Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted:

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my mom she questions everything i do
CantWait2Wed Posted:

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One of the MOH. She compares everything to her wedding which was completely and totally 100% the opposite style of mine. She also has some warped sense of what she thinks is 'etiquette'

FutureMrsTlasek Posted:

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fmil
fsil
me
justnicethings Posted:

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FMIL is the ONLY critic.

anszusterman Posted:

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FMIL!!!!! She needs to understand 1.) I'm not a New Yorker, therefore things will be different than the other weddings you have gone to 2.) I'm not jewish, so if I don't about certain traditions-YELL AT YOUR SON NOT ME 3.) this is 2011 in USA, not 1950 in Russia- THINGS CHANGE!!!!

jovigirl414 Posted:

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Definitely the in-laws ... they seem to think I am this crazed, high maintenance snob, and that's far from the truth (well, the high maintenance snob part ). I just want our wedding to be the perfect day, and I see nothing wrong with that. I try to play devils advocate, and tell myself that they just want to give advice on saving money ... but it definitely bothers me at times.
Mommy2BeBride Posted:

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throughout all my planning:

FMIL for sure!
my mother, believe it or not
and a few people who thought they knew everything


i think everyone has a few people that cant keep their words or business to themselves!
IrishAli Posted:

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Me!

I made it very clear from the get-go that if anyone wanted to be involved in the planning, we were doing it my way. If they opened their mouth, they would no longer be involved.

FMIL has been trying!
HSsweethearts Posted:

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My mom and my FMIL but for opposite reasons

My Mom I think just feels bad I didn't get my gown at Kleinfeld, not getting married on a Saturday nightm not doing Viennese. She wanted me to wait longer so I could have a more fancy wedding..believe me we are spending a ridiculous amount as it is.


My FMIL doesn't know what the fuss is all about and thinks we are spending way too much on everything. I guess I slipped at how much my dress cost, which to me was really reasonable, and my FMIL actually called up my mom saying how it was so ridiculous that I was spending that much on the gown..meanwhile, I said above, my mom wishes I could have gone to Kleinfeld and spent twice as much.
ColliMac23 Posted:

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Posted by HSsweethearts

My mom and my FMIL but for opposite reasons

My Mom I think just feels bad I didn't get my gown at Kleinfeld, not getting married on a Saturday nightm not doing Viennese. She wanted me to wait longer so I could have a more fancy wedding..believe me we are spending a ridiculous amount as it is.


My FMIL doesn't know what the fuss is all about and thinks we are spending way too much on everything. I guess I slipped at how much my dress cost, which to me was really reasonable, and my FMIL actually called up my mom saying how it was so ridiculous that I was spending that much on the gown..meanwhile, I said above, my mom wishes I could have gone to Kleinfeld and spent twice as much.




OMG! I can't lieve she called her! That's none of her business!

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