why am I so calm? it's scary!!

Did any one else get extremely calm right before the wedding. A couple weeks ago I was obsessing with EVVERYTHING! and stressing myself out like a crazy bride. Now I am calm and well if things don't get done they don't! If my BM chooses to slack and not have her dress altered and well doesn't have a dress i'm okay with her not being in the BP, 1 week to go and stil have a lot of outstanding RSVP's. And I am just in the 'meh' mellow state of mind with all of these.

I just thought it was odd with so many details and little things but yet significant things to get done I am calm!!!

People atw ork even commented on it today. One of my performers said 'what!!!!!!!!!!???? you are getting married in 1 month!? you are sooo calm! and what it's in another state! Wow i'm impressed'

If people only knew what I've gone thru to get to this point... p.s. I even had more No's then yes's today and I'm as cool as a cucumber.

I am pretty calm...at least I think I am

It's a good way to be b/c how your wedding is going to turn out is how it'sg oing to be anyway so why stress over it.
I was like that, but i have PMS so i'm freaking out a little this weekend b/c i'm so busy with bday parties, etc that I don't have time to do any wedding stuff until the first weekend in October.