So yesterday was my RSVP date and 65 people have NOT responded. What is so hard about putting a PRE-STAMPED envelope in the mail??? Is the mailbox too far that you can't walk to the curb???? I just don't get it
Vent over but still TO'd
evewedsjc
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HA
it begins.....
michelle1024
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yeah...I really don't get why this is a problem???
squeekietoy
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HAHA. Welcome to my world. My RSVP date was Nov 25th and I'm still missing 39 RSVP's. People don't seem to realize that you need to make seating charts and give a final headcount to the caterer. Welp, time to start calling people and being bitchy.
2009wedding
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I know what you are going threw. Yesterday (Dec 1st) was my rsvp dead line and I have a lot of people who did not rsvp yet either so by the end of the week fh and I are going to call the people who never sent the rsvp back. I don't get why it is so hard to put an enevlope in the mail that is already stamped. It is not right at all.
MLAngelo
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Its really not right that people do that.
Nitania13
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I think people really don't understand all the work that goes into planning a wedding. I don't think they mean to be malicious, they're just not thinking about us that much (I know, I know, the audacity, right? LOL) But it's true. People (especially this time of year and in this economy) get so wrapped up in their own worlds they forget to do this stuff. I know it's annoying (or at least, I'm sure I will know soon enough), but just call up the missing ones and ask for their response. It is frustrating though.
VickiR510
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I know its rude! MY RSVP date is Jan. 5th & i hope i dont have to many phone calls to make.
NickandTara426
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It's the mere fact that once you get it you should just send it in...the wedding is a month and a half away and I sent the invites out a month and a half ago because of the holidays coming up and what not. even if you're not coming...i won't be offended JUST SEND IT i just want to know
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Posted by VickiR510
I know its rude! MY RSVP date is Jan. 5th & i hope i dont have to many phone calls to make.
MY REPLY DATE IS JAN 5 TOO V! FUN FUN FUN!
MakingofaMulligan
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I'm also short like 60 RSVPs but I still have until 12/15. I had someone send me a NO, then call and say they can come now?
***???
NickandTara426
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Posted by MakingofaMulligan
I'm also short like 60 RSVPs but I still have until 12/15. I had someone send me a NO, then call and say they can come now?
***???
That's nuts! I have a similar situation. BUT she said 'she doesn't know because she gets sick from traveling'...it's FH's side though
EsquireBride
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yikes. our invites are going out next Monday and I hope I don't have too much drama over this.
JennyAPH
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Sorry!! I dont get why ppl can't just say yes or no and throw it in the mailbox. Is it really THAT hard??
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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Do you think if you give people less time to RSVP that it would work out better? Just thinking since I'm stlill on design process with mine
VickiR510
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Posted by Jsquared279
Posted by VickiR510
I know its rude! MY RSVP date is Jan. 5th & i hope i dont have to many phone calls to make.
MY REPLY DATE IS JAN 5 TOO V! FUN FUN FUN!
HAHAHA! See how aliek we are! lol
Jsquared279
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Posted by Jsquared279
Posted by VickiR510
I know its rude! MY RSVP date is Jan. 5th & i hope i dont have to many phone calls to make.
MY REPLY DATE IS JAN 5 TOO V! FUN FUN FUN!
HAHAHA! See how aliek we are! lol
Absolutely! I love it!!!!!!!!!!!!
MakingofaMulligan
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Posted by MakingofaMulligan
I'm also short like 60 RSVPs but I still have until 12/15. I had someone send me a NO, then call and say they can come now?
***???
That's nuts! I have a similar situation. BUT she said 'she doesn't know because she gets sick from traveling'...it's FH's side though
Mine was FH's side too. One of his sisters - surprise surprise. She was worried about airfare (Ireland) and doesn't want to travel with 4 kids....etc. etc.
thenewmrsharrington
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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Do you think if you give people less time to RSVP that it would work out better? Just thinking since I'm stlill on design process with mine
honestly, i don't think it matters. people just don't get it.
my rsvp date is dec 12 and we are missing sooooo many - there's no way i'm getting them all back in 2 weeks.
PROBM
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I have a lot of very good friends that are silly with that stuff. One of my bm threw it out once , thats why I am also setting up an rsvp on our website for people like that