Why do guys do this? Or is it just mine??

Why do guys do this? Or is it just mine??

Make plans without running it by you? But KNOWING you have things to do!
I'm so frustrated.

This weekend is the last time I have his help to pack before we move and he makes plans to see people. I swear he better make these plans later in the evening because he's going to be packing all day!! I'm not packing our apartment all by myself (which is what is happening).

Re: Why do guys do this? Or is it just mine??

We're the opposite - I make the plans and don't tell FH about them until the last minute. My famous line is 'Oh, didn't I tell you?'

Re: Why do guys do this? Or is it just mine??

Yep, mine does that too. And doesn't understand when I tell him I need time to work on wedding-related things (I doing a lot of things myself such as the invitations).

Re: Why do guys do this? Or is it just mine??

I wish my FH would make plans! he is so laid back and last minute - I usually make the plans.

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This sounds so familiar. The day before we were leaving to move to Florida he decided to go golfing I wanted to kill him. I got stuck doing all the last minute packing. I was not a happy camper #$!$!@$!

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we are both guilty
for example, last night i said oh we have plans with migs and mels -our friends and he was like UMMM no we have plans with someone from his work...UMMM why didnt you tell me...hmmmm ok so the plan for tonight is for me to hang out with mels and him to hang out with his friends from work and poor migs is all alone

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You have to train them. I did..he doesn't do it anymore...

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totally like mine! same thing - then he expects me to change my plans :(

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Um. My FH actually asks me BEFORE he does stuff. I always say 'You don't need my permission, you are a big boy!'

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Posted by adioguardi

We're the opposite - I make the plans and don't tell FH about them until the last minute. My famous line is 'Oh, didn't I tell you?'

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thats my life story

Re: Why do guys do this? Or is it just mine??

I'm convinced that the it is the penis that is in charge of making plans. See, men can't handle all their responsibilities on their own, so they delegate some of them to be taken care of by their penises, and making plans, is one of those things And we all know how well the 'little head' thinks things over

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Usually we have been good about making plans. He tries to inform me of plans on his end and I make every effort to do the same. So far it has been working out.