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Why do I see so many senior citizens out??????? VENT

holly231 Posted:

Why do I see so many senior citizens out??????? VENT

I was outside before, just taking a walk around the apartment complex in the snow, checking out the drifts, etc...

Well, I see like 6-8 senior citizens outside...one was trying to walk on the steps that were not shoveled, he had on no gloves or hat, and he could not balance and he tripped, and landed with his bare hands in the snow...he was not hurt, just could not judge the snow....I asked if he needed help, he said no, then tried to contineu down the stairs...I felt so helpless watching him, but also so aggravated that he was out....he just came out to check his mail.....That could ahve most definitely waited until tomorrow....he did not get it yesterday obviously. THen my neighbor across the hall is proably 78-90 years old, comes out with her garbage, I stepped out the door and said I will take it down for you, she said No, I want to go out. She proceeds to go out, can barely walk, and then goes to start up her car and clean the windows... Meanwhile, the wind is very wicked, and its snowing AGAIN.

I know they have self-pride and do not want any help, but don;t they know this is a risk to their health? I am so frustrated...they are proud of themselves, which is great, but I just wish they would stay warm and healthy and let the younger generation give them a hand.
OctBride05 Posted:

Re: Why do I see so many senior citizens out??????? VENT

i feel the same way. my fh gramdpa would not let him come over to shovel his driveway he wanted to do it himself, he is almost 80 years old. my grandma wants to do everything on her own too. i worry about them doing these things because they are not in the best of health.

July2004Bride Posted:

Re: Why do I see so many senior citizens out??????? VENT

My parents are in their late 70s and are very stubborn! They want to do everything themselves no matter what. I guess to them it must feel like if they can't do it, it's a reality to them they are getting too old.. and they just don't want to face that fact. I know what you are saying though... they are just stubborn, stubborn, stubborn!

MrsTC Posted:

Re: Why do I see so many senior citizens out??????? VENT

they don't want to admit they need help or admit they are not in the shape they used to be in....they spent let's say, 70+ years doing what they wanted...must be hard! Poor things. I was at the grocery store last winter and it had just snowed. This really frail elderly lady was getting about 4 bags of heavy items. I didn't know her but knew she had to have walked there (there was no parking lot and a Sr citizen center a few blocks away), so I offered to help her carry her items to her apt. She was so grateful! That was my good deed of the day.
holly231 Posted:

Re: Why do I see so many senior citizens out??????? VENT

I feel so bad for them,. and I always offer help, always hold the doors for them....stood at the stairs so if that man needed to grab on, I was there, and he did swallow his pride for a sec to lean on me...

I have such a soft heart when it comes to the elderly...I lose track of time and everything when it comes to them...I just wish they would take the help I am offereing them sometimes....but I understand them wanting to be totally self sufficient, but everyone needs help at some time..I could not just stand there and let that man walk down the stairs and watch him so unsteady on his feet normally, nevermind with all the snow we got...

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