why do people suck so bad. my BP. Bach party. Question added on the bottom.

june262004 Posted: Jun 05, 2004 06:44 PM

why do people suck so bad. my BP. Bach party. Question added on the bottom.

some of u may remember my shower nightmare how my 2 cousins werent getting along with my best friend (moh) my FSIL was caught in the middle and my friend stayed out of it. no matter the issue (especialy when my MOH asked my cosuins for money) it was a problem.

Well when my shower was over I was so upset about it that I said I will never let anyone plan anything for me ever again not even my Baby shower or Bach party. it is 3 weeks till my wedding and I have not even thought of my party. im not into the male stripper crap. I really wanted to goto the city my one cousin said but then we have to pay a cover charge. I wanted to goto Atlantic city or the Hamptons My one cousin said I cant stay over night... (she has a 2 month old baby and cant leace the baby he cant stay with his father its not like she is breast feeding) i just talk to my other cousin and said we cant do it next weekend because we have a family party on the 12 th. there is only 3 weeks till the wedding so that leaves the 19 into the 20th She says I can't stay over night that is fathers day. So that is my 2 Cousins who can't goto Atlantic City. she says even if we goto dinner or just hang out at the house??? well thats not what I want to do. Im so depressed now. I feel like it is going to s*ck we probably wont even do anything. My own Family. I wasn't even going to ask them but my mother cried and made me and LOOK what happened.

Thanks for letting me Vent.

JZNCK Posted: Jun 05, 2004 06:52 PM

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YOUR NEVER GOING TO MAKE EVERYONE HAPPY!!!! So, no need to stress.. This is supposed to be enjoyable for you.. I say you go to a spa day, facials, massages, lunch,mani and pedis and therefore, nobody will SPEAK, so peace and quiet and spoiling of the bride, then afterwards go out drinking!!!

GOOD LUCK. don't worry girl.. THEY SUCK

june262004 Posted: Jun 05, 2004 06:53 PM

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thank you crystal I am so upset My own FAMILY...

BlondeJD Posted: Jun 05, 2004 06:53 PM

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That is SO annoying! I'm sure we've all at one point or another been accused of being bridezillas, but the truth of the matter is that your wedding is one of the most important days of your life and all the traditions that lead up to it (showers and bach parties) are just as important. You'd think that people would realize that this part of your life does not revolve around THEM and they'd be willing to sacrifice a little (like leaving their kid overnight) to make this time special for you. I'm so sorry! We should have a knottie GTG for your bach party since your friends can't get their sh!t together

JZNCK Posted: Jun 05, 2004 06:54 PM

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are u sure they aren't planning something behind your back, that's why they all can't do everything???

june262004 Posted: Jun 05, 2004 07:03 PM

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Im not even being a bridezilla... I dont think I picked dresses that everyone could pick a top cause when I was in my cousins wedding (the 2 problem ones) I had to wear dresses I was so uncomfortable in. this way they would be comfy and not sit in the corner like I did. I told them i dont care what shoes u have id like for them to match the dress but it really isnt a big deal I don't care if they are sandles or regular shoes. Anything goes. My one cousin is getting her wedding shoes dyed. I don't care how u wear ure hair personally id like it up but whatever my other cousin snapped at me and said They cant get all my hair up (they did for her wedding). I am pretty positive they arent planning anything for me.

Let me mention for the record that I babysit for my cousin (the one who didnt want to goto the city or goto a.c cause of fathers day) every monday and tuesday for free yup u heard right FREE!!!!! and to boot I live upstairs from her so when he SIL oversleeps on days she is suppose to babysit they call upstairs and wake me up (my FH and I work nights) so I can watch the baby til she gets here.

julz33 Posted: Jun 05, 2004 07:19 PM

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You wanted to go to the Hamptons right? Lets have a LIW GTG/Bach party for you in the Hamptons I'll drive you so you can get wasted!

june262004 Posted: Jun 05, 2004 07:22 PM

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Posted by julz33

You wanted to go to the Hamptons right? Lets have a LIW GTG/Bach party for you in the Hamptons I'll drive you so you can get wasted!

LOL... AWW thanks Julz.

june262004 Posted: Jun 05, 2004 08:19 PM

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Alright. I am thinking Culture Club or Posh anyone ever been to either place? Posh is 10.00 cover and culture Club is 20.00. who ever wants to come will come I guess. I went to the Posh website and you can make VIP reservations and reserve a table. Anyone intrested from here is more then welcome to join us on June 19th. Since I am sure my girls will all bale. LOL....

Happybride2005 Posted: Jun 05, 2004 08:22 PM

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Its a shmae you have to go through this. When we pick girls to be in the bridal party, you would think that they all could get along for you. Its not there day, its your day.

Here's some hugs

june262004 Posted: Jun 05, 2004 08:25 PM

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Posted by Happybride2005

Its a shmae you have to go through this. When we pick girls to be in the bridal party, you would think that they all could get along for you. Its not there day, its your day.

Here's some hugs

Thank you. All I asked was for them to get along for three days. My shower my Bach party and my wedding. They couldnt. Thank you for the

Happybride2005 Posted: Jun 05, 2004 08:39 PM

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Posted by june262004

Thank you. All I asked was for them to get along for three days. My shower my Bach party and my wedding. They couldnt. Thank you for the

When it comes time for mine for my bach party, I just want my dearest friends to spend the day with me. I don't care what we do. I just want to have a good time and to have everyone get along. If all fails, you could have a bach parties with the girls from here.

lilqtny Posted: Jun 05, 2004 09:19 PM

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Posh and Culture Club are both great. It depends on what you like. Culture Club has that eighties feel and I've had so much fun there. Posh is more up to date. ALso tends to have a largely gay following.

This is info on Cutlure Club:
SATURDAYS!!!
Doors open @ 9pm. 2 floors 2 DJ's spinning it all under one roof.... Come check out our all new upper level and our 2 new booming sound systems.... Spinning all your favorite MTV 80's hits & Freestyle 80's jams on our LOWER LEVEL and Hip-Hop, Reggae, Latin, House & Today's Club Hits on our UPPER LEVEL.
Cover: $20 B4 11pm & $25 after!
Bar Package: Top Shelf Open Bar.... $60 per person from 9pm to 12am INCLUDES cover (shots and red bull extra)! 5 PERSON MINIMUM

PrincessJen11400 Posted: Jun 06, 2004 07:21 PM

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AWW Kristin i sowwy i love u. Hey even though im not in ur bridal pary or even invited and even though we talk ever day about our wedding. even though i thought u were a total b!tch When i worked with u. but hey ill throw you a party. lets go ill go out with u ill drag mom along to well have fun. i never heard of this Culture Club thingy were is it? let me know. i love u girl. im here for ya. hey when all else fails we can go bwling lol.

june262004 Posted: Jun 06, 2004 07:25 PM

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LOL... Thanks Jen. Culture club is in the city. Its a club where they play all 80's music and I am a total geek and love 80's music. I could be up for bowling soon LOL.... On Sunday Night of course LOL

regi Posted: Jun 06, 2004 07:27 PM

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You could come to my bachelorette party. I mean that. C'mon you kept me in suspense about the Sopranos..(I will not forget this time ) Maybe they are playing with you and are going to surprise you. If not my party and I are going to see the 'donkey show' and you are invited

june262004 Posted: Jun 06, 2004 07:30 PM

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Posted by regi

You could come to my bachelorette party. I mean that. C'mon you kept me in suspense about the Sopranos..(I will not forget this time ) Maybe they are playing with you and are going to surprise you. If not my party and I are going to see the 'donkey show' and you are invited

AWWW thank you so much... I might take u up on that offer. Im sorry about the Sopranos but hey it was worth it LOL... You are more then welcome to come to mine if I have one.