Why do some users not want to put their RH or Date.......................

AmorPeruano Posted: May 07, 2007 04:56 PM

Why do some users not want to put their RH or Date.......................

.....Im starting to notice.......that a lot of ladies on here do NOT put there RH info or even their Wedding Date in their profile............... Is this because there are crazy people out there (on on LIW for that matter) and they are afraid someone is going to do something to them....or is it just for privacy reasons.......I was just wondering if something happened to someone on here and thats why people are so protective......... ???????? Fill me in ladies, Im new!!!!!

margaretk Posted: May 07, 2007 04:59 PM

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i think it's because of crazies... but I'm not sure... it did scare me off though and I don't put 'everything' down on my info...

i wish i could... but then... i get paranoid...

(sigh)...

guess that doesn't answer your question 100% ... but i think that's why...

rkl1130 Posted: May 07, 2007 05:03 PM

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I agree.

There was a bunch of drama going on and it scared people. I know that I got a bit nervous about it.

charisma Posted: May 07, 2007 05:06 PM

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i agree also too much drama, we dont want brides making the front page of the paper for Murder 1

LitBallerinaGirl Posted: May 07, 2007 05:10 PM

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I like taking risks, so I don't care who knew what about my wedding day!
Plus by the time I realized this site was here I was already married, so I figured no one was going to come after me looking to take over my place and time.

mishmosh328 Posted: May 07, 2007 05:22 PM

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I used to have my RH on here...but then I started hearing all those stories about those crazy people so I took it off.

cindyandkevin Posted: May 07, 2007 05:32 PM

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There are crazy people out there, some have gone so far as to cancel other people's vendors so that they can turn around and book them for the same day. I know it's insane, but it's been done. But I never worried about it, reputable vendors won't go by a simple phone call.

the future mrs m Posted: May 07, 2007 05:35 PM

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dang.

SeaMaiden Posted: May 07, 2007 06:01 PM

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im not revealing because then family and friends could easily identify me and then i couldnt vent about them, lol.

HeatherRose Posted: May 07, 2007 06:38 PM

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I heard about that too, people canceling vendors on other girls, I'm not listing mine cause Fh thinks theres crazies out there, but I know all my vendors require a notarized letter stating I want something canceled, as well as a phone call, I actually asked, because of what I heard, so I think its kinda hard.. but i do talk about my venodrs on boards

AmorPeruano Posted: May 07, 2007 11:28 PM

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Wow girls!!! I had NOOOO idea!!!

joan_db Posted: May 07, 2007 11:56 PM

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Agree with other brides...because of the drama and you just can't trust anybody.

I also want to warn other girls who posted a lot of pictures here.. I was watching Oprah and some lunatic use other people's picture to post in internet dating site. You just never know.

JeanetteandSteve Posted: May 08, 2007 12:02 AM

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Posted by SeaMaiden

im not revealing because then family and friends could easily identify me and then i couldnt vent about them, lol.

great answer!!

ggcopying Posted: May 08, 2007 12:04 AM

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Posted by joan_db

Agree with other brides...because of the drama and you just can't trust anybody.

I also want to warn other girls who posted a lot of pictures here.. I was watching Oprah and some lunatic use other people's picture to post in internet dating site. You just never know.

I agree, that's why I don't have any personal pictures there
but I am not afraid of posting my hall and wedding date otherwise I don't feel like i am a bride here

SusiBtoM Posted: May 08, 2007 09:04 AM

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Kind of scary. Never thought anyone would cancel someone else's vendors.
Maybe I'll change my profile.

dancerandchef Posted: May 08, 2007 09:44 AM

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It's not scaring me either. The vendors that we are using know who we are us. If there was a situation
we would not take care of it via phone. We would take care of it in person.

~dancer and chef~

KickinDandelions Posted: May 08, 2007 09:59 AM

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Posted by SeaMaiden

im not revealing because then family and friends could easily identify me and then i couldnt vent about them, lol.

agreed!!!

femmes Posted: May 08, 2007 10:18 AM

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Posted by dancerandchef

It's not scaring me either. The vendors that we are using know who we are us. If there was a situation
we would not take care of it via phone. We would take care of it in person.

~dancer and chef~

agreed.