why do you think people act differently towards you when you are planning your wedding?
rlgirl
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why do you think people act differently towards you when you are planning your wedding?
1. they are afraid of losing you 2. they are being haters 3. they think you are a bridezilla 4. your own opinion
i have been having soooo many problems with people choosing to act ignorant towards me every since ive been engaged. if it wasnt for these wedding boards, i would feel so alone. they are going above and beyond to make sure i know that they could care less about the wedding. i am not one of those brides who have been walking around thinking the world revolves around me just because of the wedding.
lilqtpie2181
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I think it depend of the person. Some people just dont want to be botherd with the petty stuff... what e call our happiness as brides. others are haters. I know afew of these. htelist just goes on. I learned that this is the time when our ture supporters will shine and friends with show thier true faces. Good Luck with everything and dont let anyone rain on ur parade!! Its ur day.
rlgirl
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yeah thanks, im not letting it bother me or anything. i just think its sad that it takes a wedding for people to show their true colors. i havent been able to really be excited about my wedding because of all the bad vibes i keep getting. its not like my fh is horrible. i mean, for all the women that are like what happen to when men used to do this or that. i got him! i dont know.
greenfreak
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Well don't worry because you'll get plenty of people happy for you here!! We're all in it together.
I've been lucky, my family has been estatic for me but at work, only one person ever asks me how things are going. She just got married herself so she knows the value of a sympathetic ear! But I try not to bore her with too many minute details. That's what LIWeddings is for.
Other than that, I'll get an occasional 'It's getting close, huh?' but you can tell they don't really want to hear about it. And other people completely ignore it and would rather know nothing about my personal life. Luckily, I can afford to not give a **** about those people and revel in their names NOT being on the invite list.
meliss1019
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i have some friends that were excited for me but it seemed like an act & they do act differently toward me now & aren't really that interested in my plans...but tell me about theres.....it may be b/c they are still waitng to get engaged & they have there whole wedding planned to the tee......who knows, just the way some people are, I was always happy when one of my friends were getting married. some people you realize you just don't need to be as close to as you may have been b/c of there acts
