Why does everyone need to tell you....

about the last wedding they went to or their kids wedding and what I should do at my wedding!!!!!!!

i went to the dentist for a cleaning before the wedding, and she asked me why i was in cuz my last appt was 5 months ago, so i tell her to have it done before wedding and she started in.....

telling me about all the things at the last 5 weddings she went to, what they did that was 'so great' and what she did and didnt like....etc

i dont mind a little wedding talk but not while she is reaching in my mouth with sharp metal cleaning instuments!!!

i just wanted to relax!!!

ugh.

I've got everyone coming in my office asking me what i'm going to do if we have a hurricane on the wedding day or the huggymoon...

i'm like, please just STFU

No one ever can stop!!! it drives me crazy!!

especially when they mention things they dont like and its something you do.....uhhhhhhhhhh
what do you say to that???
y cant they keep their mouths shut!!!

omG!!! FMIL does this ALLLLLLLLLL the time. keep in mind - this is my job!!! i have helped plan about 100 weddings in 3 years. i don't care what so-n-so's daughter did!

She was telling me in June what a girl did for her favors since she did a donation too. I went to h.s. with the girl and CANT STAND HER!!! she's uppity and rude. why in the world would i want to do anything like her? lmaooo

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Posted by BeccaJo

DH got a lot of 'It's all downhill from here' - I mean who says that to someone who just got married???

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I am sure my FH is getting that from allll his friends. I am the last one of my friends to get married, he is the first of his. And I am only 1 year older than he is. Just goes to show you the difference in thinking about getting married between men and women...

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Posted by JBoothIn2008

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Posted by BeccaJo

DH got a lot of 'It's all downhill from here' - I mean who says that to someone who just got married???

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I am sure my FH is getting that from allll his friends. I am the last one of my friends to get married, he is the first of his. And I am only 1 year older than he is. Just goes to show you the difference in thinking about getting married between men and women...

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so true!!!!!

FH dumb *** cousin who is married and has 2 kids...(a complete *** ) by the way ..told him...it was the biggest mistake of his life..so i turned around and told him 'MAYBE YOUR'S WAS A MISTAKE..BUT THIS ONE ISN'T'

Honestly, this guy makes me sick!

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Posted by MELABELLA82

FH dumb *** cousin who is married and has 2 kids...(a complete *** ) by the way ..told him...it was the biggest mistake of his life..so i turned around and told him 'MAYBE YOUR'S WAS A MISTAKE..BUT THIS ONE ISN'T'

Honestly, this guy makes me sick!

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I just DO NOT get people who think marriage as an institution is a bad idea. I mean, there are people I know who are in relationships for 10 years and say, 'I'm never getting married.' WHY? What's gonna change when you are married? in all honesty, if you have a good relationship, nothing between the couple should change. I mean yes, you buy a house, you have kids - and that stuff can and will change you - but it shouldn't make you think that marriage stinks, etc - and you can do all those things without being married! It's just a piece of paper, essentially. Yes, it means more than that and we all know what it signifies - but for people who are in long term relationships to say they refuse to get married, I just don't get it.

if the person was single and telling me they refuse to date etc, that I can almost understand because they have had problems, etc. (still a commitment problem I am sure but it's understandable sometimes). KWIM???