Apparently there is BP drama going on. I hate that. I am trying to be so easy going and apparently there is drama anyhow. I don't know the details because its over my shower, but I do know my MOH is worried and my other friend's feelings have been hurt.
I don't know what to do because I don't even think I am supposed to know there is drama and I don't what the drama is even about, but I am upset.
Why can't my wedding just go off without the drama. These are all my friends. Why do they have to end up upset. I have been the easiest bride.
kristen1226
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Try not to stress about it. There will always be drama but it will get resolved. I have been in sooo many wedding parties and there was drama in all of them because everyone has different ideas.
I would say to stay out of it and let them handle it. It will be so much better for you.
stefandken
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the same exact thing happened between my BM's .... don't stress over it... i guess its common.. by the time your wedding comes it will be much better.. trust me!
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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There are some issues between my bp members ... but my MOH has made sure not to involve me... I feel bad but theres really enough on our plates as brides as it is... we dont need to be involved with their biz either... address them after the shower if you must... thats what i did...
coldasice217
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In a weird, roundabout way, if there's drama, that means at least that they are all participating and being active, albeit butting heads. My BP has pretty much sat with their thumbs firmly planted up their butts for the past year, and only now are my sisters *kind of* waking up for the shower, which is my mom's own personal freak show, but no one else is even bothering to say boo to one another.
MrsDrinkh20
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i so understand...it must be in the water this week...hang in there sweetheart...
littlepixie12
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DONT BE UPSET! There is going to be drama no matter what! I am the easiest going bride.. sometimes too much so and there was still drama over my shower, and many other things.. so honestly, Im at the point where I just tell people what to do and if they dont like it, they dont have to be in my wedding
MrsCM
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Let them work it out, you have enough to worry about
WishfulRinne
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Im so sorry because I can so relate! Drama follows me...I swear!
lee29lee
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I find that when you have a bunch of girls planning an event there will be drama. I tell them to deal with it, I don't want to be worrying about their drama when I am trying to plan a drama free wedding day! They are all adults and have to learn to get along, for the sake of the bride!
