my grandparents ar eup from florida and we went yesterday to sign our final contracts and show them the hotel...
when we got home he was expressing some opinions and I snapped at him. he got up and left the room and i wound up going upstairs and crying (of course i came down and apologized)
i feel like a bridezilla- i can't believe how emotional all this is making me
and i feel so bad for snapping at my pop!!!
cjb88
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i think it is hard beause we put so much thought and consideration into some things and then sometimes people make random commets and it just htis us below the belt... I dont think everyone realizes just how stressful wedding planning can be... dont worry about it, we all have had our moments...
ChrissynRicky
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Posted by cjb88
i think it is hard beause we put so much thought and consideration into some things and then sometimes people make random commets and it just htis us below the belt... I dont think everyone realizes just how stressful wedding planning can be... dont worry about it, we all have had our moments...
It's so true. I also think that b/c we put so much time and effort into everything, and when someone comments about even the smallest thing, we take it as a criticism and that we did something wrong. It also doesn't help that it's been ages since other people planned a wedding, and they don't realize how stressful it really is.
VogueBride
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for most of us..this is the largest thing we have ever planned.....we get snappy...and i think for the most part people understand.....youre allowed to get a bit emotional!
Robin404
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I do the same thing - unfortunately I feel like I snap at my dad all the time. I try and work on it, but he just really gets under my skin sometimes!
MayBride06
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This has also been happening to me! I have been snapping a FH for no reason lately! Oh god, how does he put up with me?
MrsStefan
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I havent gotten TOO bad with snapping at people, but I have done it with my mom a few times already. Just keep in mind that its a high stress time for EVERYONE and although it seems like the brides are under the most stress, our parents are going through a lot too. I just have to keep remembering to keep myself in check.
