So my twin sister and one of my BM's (friend of 12 years) work together at a restuarnt. My BM is a bartender thier and my twin sister is a server. The managment recently ask my sis to become a bartenter for the second time and she finally ecpected. So over the weekend I was at my BM house and we were talikg about my sister and I just happened to say that she shouldn't train my sis b/c they're bond to bump heads. Well, low and behold the second day of training for my sis was with our BFF and they started fighting and now b/c they both call me to justify each other and i try to stay partial but it's so hard! I just want to scream....................
lucky1010
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middle of what?
Maria31
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middle of what?
I think she means she's caught in the middle of their fight...
If I were you, I'd just tell them both to leave you out of it and resolve it on their own! I've been there and I know what you're going through. I would just stop listening!! GL!
lucky1010
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aww im so sorry! The post wasn't there when I clicked on it!!!
Maria31
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aww im so sorry! The post wasn't there when I clicked on it!!!
Oooh!
lucky1010
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I would just ask them to leave you out of it, you advised her not to train her before, but now you don't want to be part of this...
Jacquelyn
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I've told them to leave me out of it but they both call me after every fight they get into and it's so annoying! Now my friend is mad at me b/c she feels we alsways talk about her [which we don't] and I just p*ssed off!
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sorry jac!
Bride908
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that stinks...I was just tell them to leave you out of it. I hate those situations, I always take my sisters side. I hate when my friends say anything, Im really bad like that
Kerin2804
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oh boy .... maybe you can tell them both - love you and I will listen but I can not take sides here.
Jacquelyn
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Aw thanks Kristen! Friends just shouldn't work together ya know feeling get hurt.
Jacquelyn
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LOL, I don't always take my sisters side! I try to just listen, but your sister is your sister and it's hard not to side with her.
Jacquelyn
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I already did that and it didn't work. Thanks tho ;(
