That people get sooo quick to start a fight on here. We are all here for the same reason to marry the person we love. No need to comment on a post in a nasty manner. If you are giving people advice and are on this website you need to understand everyone has a right to there opinion good or bad. Isn't that why we are here to see people's reviews of RH, photographers, flowers etc??? I think so. So if you are a person who is easily offended this is not the site for you!!!
I understand that there are ways to say things so people aren't offended. So the moral of the story is you cannot post your opinion bc others get upset very easily... So beware what you post bc all of the brides that you may have thought you had something in common with will take out the claws and claw ur eyes out... HEHEH I don't think a fight is necessary!! We are planning a nice event...
mybabylovesmoi
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You're a liar and this post su cks!
j/k. I agree that some people seem a little on edge.
AngnShaun
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Honestly... not everyone can accept bad news about a vendor of theirs... i think its pretty natural to get defensive... granted she didnt read your post because you never said it was a bad place to get married like she said you did... but if it were you im sure you'd feel similar to her...
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I completely agree.. Actually I appreciate constructive criticism.. I would want to know if someone else had a problem with my rental hall or anything negative about any of the vendors that I cooked.. and everyone has different experiences / opinions so I dont understand what the drama is about.. but It sure does make my work day go by so much faster lol
soontobmrsmike
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Posted by AngnShaun
Honestly... not everyone can accept bad news about a vendor of theirs... i think its pretty natural to get defensive... granted she didnt read your post because you never said it was a bad place to get married like she said you did... but if it were you im sure you'd feel similar to her...
ur right but its not like i said-- The place is horrible don't book there. I simply said my dad and someone else got sick- There were alot of older people at the party and if they got food poisoning at there age they could die.. It is a serious thing. I just don't want anyone else to have to go through that.. That is all - just be careful is all i was saying.
soontobmrsmike
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if someone else told me that my place was horrible i would just take it as there opinion. You can't get offended when someone tells you about food poisoning....
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if someone else told me that my place was horrible i would just take it as there opinion.....
thats great but not everyone is like that...
ETA: You pretty much just have to accept that people are going to react this way sometimes
soontobmrsmike
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yeah i know! I wasn't trying to hurt anyones feelings.. I really thought i was being helpful but i guess next time i won't say anything. Just let people learn for themselves!!!
AngnShaun
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yeah i know! I wasn't trying to hurt anyones feelings.. I really thought i was being helpful but i guess next time i won't say anything. Just let people learn for themselves!!!
dont NOT say anything... thats not the moral of the story... lol... just expect people to react a certain way...
soontobmrsmike
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yeah i know! I wasn't trying to hurt anyones feelings.. I really thought i was being helpful but i guess next time i won't say anything. Just let people learn for themselves!!!
dont NOT say anything... thats not the moral of the story... lol... just expect people to react a certain way...
so i guess u can never ask anyones opinion then... whats the point of the site?
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yeah i know! I wasn't trying to hurt anyones feelings.. I really thought i was being helpful but i guess next time i won't say anything. Just let people learn for themselves!!!
dont NOT say anything... thats not the moral of the story... lol... just expect people to react a certain way...
so i guess u can never ask anyones opinion then... whats the point of the site?
i dont know where that came from...
i said say what you want to say... you just have to be prepared that people might have a problem with it... and voice their own opinions..
soontobmrsmike
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yes i understand that just don't know if other people do.
AngnShaun
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yes i understand that just don't know if other people do.
im sure there are people that dont...
but its not your problem if other people do or dont... just do what you have to do and say what you have to say... good, bad or the ugly
soontobmrsmike
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yeah ur right. I go on this site to find out reviews about stuff before I go to book something. I will form my own opinion but i feel its always good to know the good with the bad just to have options.I really hope u don't think i came off as a b*** bc that is not what i meant at all. I would not have posted that if i realized i was going to hurt people's feelings. I'm going to school to be a nurse in no way am i going to be an evil person... hahah
u can't be in that profession!!!
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did I miss something???
side note: I completely agree with you. Some posts just get out of hand if something is said in a certain way that could be taken as rude when in reality it wasn't meant that way at all.
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I read your other post and you didn't not in anyway come off as rude or bad mouthing the place. People need to chill sometimes. I am going to be honest about things on here and I hope ppl are honest about my RH if something went wrong.
soontobmrsmike
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yea im realizing you can't win.. so that is why i edited the post. Wish i can delete other people's comments bc i did not post it to start a fight but when someone that does not know you tells you - that u are lying that makes me angry bc my dad did get sick and he was not the only one.. MY grandmother is 85 god forbid she got sick her immune system could not take it...
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I agree
soontobmrsmike
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thanks for understanding.. im on here just like everyone else to GET MARRIED!!! not fight with other people bc my opinion is different than theres..
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well I want to know ANYTHING bad that happens w a vendor of mine. I think it';s better to be informed. I wouldn't be offended unless someone said, 'that place is butt ugly..or that photogs pics suckk etc.'
hearing of a situation would allow me to be aware of a potential problem.
