WHY IS IT THAT JUST BECAUSE I HAVE A CHILD...

people are so blunt and stupid sometimes....life is life and all of us do things that other people would think is the 'wrong order.' so silly....i don't know why people think they have a right to ask questions like that!!!

I know what your going through, when my son was first born i would take him shopping and i would have the older women come up to me and say ' oh your lil brother is so cute' it happened me to so manytimes i started screaming at some women like who the heck do they think they are talking to us like that sorry we are not as perfect as you!!!

Just ignore them. People have insane opinions and they aren't worth dealing with. I think its sweet that you'll have your son there at your wedding.

People really are so rude sometimes! I am sorry they do that to you, and I am very happy to hear that you are proud of your son and have no regrets! I hope that you have the most beautiful wedding, and you make it as big as you want to!!!!!

You should never feel stupid because of someone else's opinion. We each lead our own lives and make our own paths. People could be so rude sometimes,you should feel proud that you have your son, I know many people who would love to have children and are finding it very difficult to.

Best wishes with the rest of your wedding planning! It is your's and your FH's day to shine

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Posted by Keywi231

I know what your going through, when my son was first born i would take him shopping and i would have the older women come up to me and say ' oh your lil brother is so cute' it happened me to so manytimes i started screaming at some women like who the heck do they think they are talking to us like that sorry we are not as perfect as you!!!

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I got one worse. My two brothers were 11 and 12 yrs younger than myself. Once we were at McDonalds and I was watching them in the ball pit. This old woman approached me and asked me 'sweet don't you wish you were with jesus, so those little ones could have been born in wedlock?' Teachers use to question me if they were my brothers or my sons, because I carried a wallet with their little pictures in it. People can be very rude at times.

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Posted by EmberLynn

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Posted by Keywi231

I know what your going through, when my son was first born i would take him shopping and i would have the older women come up to me and say ' oh your lil brother is so cute' it happened me to so manytimes i started screaming at some women like who the heck do they think they are talking to us like that sorry we are not as perfect as you!!!

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I got one worse. My two brothers were 11 and 12 yrs younger than myself. Once we were at McDonalds and I was watching them in the ball pit. This old woman approached me and asked me 'sweet don't you wish you were with jesus, so those little ones could have been born in wedlock?' Teachers use to question me if they were my brothers or my sons, because I carried a wallet with their little pictures in it. People can be very rude at times.

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People were wondering if my brother (almost 17 years younger than me!! ) was my son but my mom claimed he was hers.

Or... people whispering in the street while I was walking with him in his stroller on the way to the park... 'oh wow, her belly is very flat for having a kid'.

People are so naive and sorry to say.. 'STUPID'.

Totally unrelated.... Someone on my wedding day told me that I looked like my 'father'. Good laugh for everyone one. He is not my father. He is my mom's husband.

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Posted by EmberLynn

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Posted by Keywi231

I know what your going through, when my son was first born i would take him shopping and i would have the older women come up to me and say ' oh your lil brother is so cute' it happened me to so manytimes i started screaming at some women like who the heck do they think they are talking to us like that sorry we are not as perfect as you!!!

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I got one worse. My two brothers were 11 and 12 yrs younger than myself. Once we were at McDonalds and I was watching them in the ball pit. This old woman approached me and asked me 'sweet don't you wish you were with jesus, so those little ones could have been born in wedlock?' Teachers use to question me if they were my brothers or my sons, because I carried a wallet with their little pictures in it. People can be very rude at times.

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Your kidding, right?

People are insane

What I do love is that my son is 15 and when we are together he gets upset when men 'check me out'.. even more so when his little friends consider me hot. Lord help me. I just think people can be so rude and inconsiderate and not think before they speak.

Plain and simple because even though this is the 21st century, ppl are still close minded and ignorant.

Dont make anyone make you feel like crap....

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Posted by SIBride06

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Posted by EmberLynn

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Posted by Keywi231

I know what your going through, when my son was first born i would take him shopping and i would have the older women come up to me and say ' oh your lil brother is so cute' it happened me to so manytimes i started screaming at some women like who the heck do they think they are talking to us like that sorry we are not as perfect as you!!!

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I got one worse. My two brothers were 11 and 12 yrs younger than myself. Once we were at McDonalds and I was watching them in the ball pit. This old woman approached me and asked me 'sweet don't you wish you were with jesus, so those little ones could have been born in wedlock?' Teachers use to question me if they were my brothers or my sons, because I carried a wallet with their little pictures in it. People can be very rude at times.

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Your kidding, right?

People are insane

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I wish I was! Whats worse is my first name is bonnie. It sounds a lot like mommy when a two yr old says it.

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Posted by sr081906

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Posted by EmberLynn

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Posted by Keywi231

I know what your going through, when my son was first born i would take him shopping and i would have the older women come up to me and say ' oh your lil brother is so cute' it happened me to so manytimes i started screaming at some women like who the heck do they think they are talking to us like that sorry we are not as perfect as you!!!

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I got one worse. My two brothers were 11 and 12 yrs younger than myself. Once we were at McDonalds and I was watching them in the ball pit. This old woman approached me and asked me 'sweet don't you wish you were with jesus, so those little ones could have been born in wedlock?' Teachers use to question me if they were my brothers or my sons, because I carried a wallet with their little pictures in it. People can be very rude at times.

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People were wondering if my brother (almost 17 years younger than me!! ) was my son but my mom claimed he was hers.

Or... people whispering in the street while I was walking with him in his stroller on the way to the park... 'oh wow, her belly is very flat for having a kid'.

People are so naive and sorry to say.. 'STUPID'.

Totally unrelated.... Someone on my wedding day told me that I looked like my 'father'. Good laugh for everyone one. He is not my father. He is my mom's husband.

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Been there done that. My baby brother jake is walking down the asile with me. He is like a son to me. So I don't care what people say or think. They can kiss my arse.

eh, try this one,,,
i have a son who will be 8 next month from a previous marriage..i got married when i was 20, and was married for 4 years..i get the whole 'ohhh, whyd u go so crazy this time around?'...i feel like smackin them...someone asked me why id wear white, because i should know there are 'rules'..
can u imagine? i told her, i dont have rules, im sorry lol