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Why My Mom Rocks....

Jess and Jon Posted:

Why My Mom Rocks....

I have to write an open letter to my Mom.

If you knew half of my life than you would understand how important it is to me to have my Mom and I be so close again.

When I was 15, my family was in a devastating car accident and my Mom almost died. My Dad and I walked away with a barely a scratch on us. Head injuries can change a person so much.

The past 13 years have been a difficult struggle to regain my best friend and have back the Mom that I remember from before the fights and the arguments.

Its funny, this wedding has brought us so much closer together than I ever could have thought. I call my Mom so much more now. I can say its because my grandmother, Mama, passed away last year and I want to make sure my Mom is ok.

But the truth is, I finally feel like we are getting back to where we used to be. Yes, we still fight but they are fewer and farer between.

She has been amazing during this process and I wouldn't be having half as much fun as I am having putting it all together if it wasn't for her. My Mom comes to every appointment and even hand cancelled my invites for me today at the post office.

My Mom has been so supportive and amazing....I just needed to get this out guess. I rarely talk about the car accident so this is a nice way to do it in an anonymous sort of way.

I might take this down....
MrsDtoBe09 Posted:

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You should definitely remind your mom about how much she means to you...she sounds like an amazing person!

Nichole2010 Posted:

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first of all, im glad to hear everyone survived the car accident

second of all, that is awesome that you and your mom are so close again. I bet that is an awesome feeling. I hope your relationship continues to grow stronger each day!

best of luck!

Lsorrent Posted:

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Someone up there is watching over you........

Have you told your mom this??? I bet she'd LOVE to hear it......I'm sure she'd love to know that you feel like she is your best friend again and how much you appreciate all of her help

MirabellaNYC Posted:

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I'm so glad you shared that with us!!

I truly believe that the engagement period really strengthens (and/or tests) relationships with our families.

Tell your mom how you feel! I'm sure she'll love to hear this.
Amberrenee6705 Posted:

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Aw...thats great to hear. I know on a personal level how hard it is to come back from that kind of thing. Im very happy for you both
BarbieGrl10 Posted:

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Awww Jess that was soo sweet! I had no idea you were in a car accident!
Jess and Jon Posted:

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Posted by BarbieGrl10

Awww Jess that was soo sweet! I had no idea you were in a car accident!




Thanks....
Yes! That is actually why I transfered to ASJ because I needed to be in a very nuturing place and ASJ was perfection. Also, the reason why Cheri and I were so close at the time was she came there for the same reason I did. Except she was the one who got hurt in her accident....
KerriJohnS Posted:

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sweet
allegracristina Posted:

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Jess that is so sweet...I'm crying right now...You are such an amazing, strong, beautiful woman!

For some reason FM is NOT working! I wanted to tell you your shrugs are on their way! I will have to see when they come in if they are 3/4 or LS, because the clothing buyer ordered them for you, but I will let you know when they come in! Also how much. XOXOXOXOXOXOX
Jess and Jon Posted:

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Posted by allegracristina

Jess that is so sweet...I'm crying right now...You are such an amazing, strong, beautiful woman!

For some reason FM is NOT working! I wanted to tell you your shrugs are on their way! I will have to see when they come in if they are 3/4 or LS, because the clothing buyer ordered them for you, but I will let you know when they come in! Also how much. XOXOXOXOXOXOX



Thanks sweetie and what you wrote to me was so lovely.

THANK YOU SO MUCH! This is a huge help!!!

Keep me posted XOXOXOXO!! It was so nice seeing you the other day!!
las1 Posted:

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that is very sweet I am sure your mom would love to hear this

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