why not me?

DH and i have been trying to conceive a child for about 10 months now. Unfortunately, we have not had any positive results. But, it seems like everyone around me is already or just finding out that they are pregnant. This upsets me so much. Two of my SIL's are pg and almost all of my friends. I hate to admit this but I am so jealous.

I'm sorry!! Everything happens for a reason. Maybe its just not your time yet. Stay positive and focused on what you want and eventually it will happen!! Good Luck!!

I feel the same way you do. I wish I could say I have some magical solution but I don't Thursday (we just hit the point of trying for our twelfth month so we are now in the 'takes longer than a year' group, which realllllly fustrated me) I had a good scream/cry session with DH and that helped me get my feelings in check and talking it through with his seems to be the only thing that makes me feel the smallest bit better. All I can say is hang on there and lean on your family/friends for support. If you need a good rant session feel free to email me, right now I am good at those.

Deborah

I know how you ladies all feel, but remember this, good things come to those who wait. I say beofre 2004 is over, we'll all be pregnant.

to everyone

I am so sorry I know how you feel. 2 of my friends at work got pregnant and I didn't. I was so jealous. (one is due early July the other early August) I will so happy for them when they give birth but on the other hand so sad because its not me giving birth.

My Dr just gave me Clomid to start next week. Have you been to the Dr?

Please come here and vent anytime, most of us are in the same boat

Have you tried ovulations kits? I found out that I ovulate really early so for us the couple months that we were trying on the 10th-15th wouldn't work because I already ovulated. I got pg the first shot with the ovulation kit (i miscarried though).

I know what you mean it is hard when everyone around you is experiencing the thing that you want most. I know it is hard. It makes it harder when people say don't worry your time will come and stuff.

If you have already tried the ovulation kits then I would go see a doctor and make sure everything is ok.

I know how you feel

I am so sorry, but dont give up!!! Your time will come (hopefully soon)!!!! I am sending lots of and baby dust to you!!!
Good luck!

don't give up. Many hugs to you and your hubby. Lots and lots of baby dust too. :

I totally know how you feel,
we have been trying for about 9 months now.

Everyone around me seems to be getting pregnant. I was dreading answering the phone!!
(and of course most of them are like oh and we werent even really trying, didnt expect to get pregnant this soon - this kiss of death for me)

I am happy for them all but of course Jealous Too!
there is nothing we can do about our feelings they are natural.

I also have a friend who is in the same boat as me and for much longer.
I can not wait for the day for her to tell me she is pregnant (of course I will be jealous then too, but my feelings of happiness for her will totally outweigh the jealousy)

baby dust to all

Keep The Faith