wierd or not?

So I live with FH and I just have this huge urge to not be home and stay at my mothers for the whole week of the wedding. I told FH that I am doing it. I dont know why but I guess I want to feel like Im not married for a week lol.

Is that wierd??

not weird I know a lot of people do that.

though I feel the opposite and we don't live together but i want to stay together the night before the wedding.... not sure how to deal with that since my parents want me to stay at their house even though I haven't lived there for 7 years.

i personally would if i stayed with my parents for any prolonged amount of time especially during a high stress time like the week before my wedding even going to visit them can be

i dont think that is weird at all, but if you have a lot to do before the wedding FH will not be there to help....just a thought
i wouldnt want to do that cuz i dont sleep well without FH by my side

See, I would have felt completely displaced the week of my wedding if I wasn't in my apt. (we lived together too). The week of your wedding you're going to be running around like a crazy person....if I was at my mom's house during that time, it would have made me even crazier because I would have needed tons of things (numbers, papers, things on MY computer, just my own shower and bed..just being in my own place..) that make me comfortable. I needed just that stability since the rest of my life was like a tornado that week.

Leaving my apt wasn't even a thought for me. Besides, DH calms me....on top of being a crazy person that week, the sheer stress alone made me an emotional basketcase, no joke I cried every single day, just from stress (and excitement). I needed DH that week to physically be there for me. I would have lost it if not for him.

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Posted by Future Mulligan

i personally would if i stayed with my parents for any prolonged amount of time especially during a high stress time like the week before my wedding even going to visit them can be

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Lmaoooo my sisters keep asking me if Im sure...they keep saying I dont know what Im in for.

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Posted by snwb08

not weird I know a lot of people do that.

though I feel the opposite and we don't live together but i want to stay together the night before the wedding.... not sure how to deal with that since my parents want me to stay at their house even though I haven't lived there for 7 years.

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We lived together, and we stayed together like an other night the night before the wedding. I wouldn't have had it any other way. It was so great to fall asleep together the night before our wedding and to wake up together on our biggest day ever. We woke up so happy.

No not at all. I'm staying at my mom's the night before even though the church is right around the corner form our house. I want to feel like a little girl once more. I like your idea though of the whole week, but I'd miss my little 'kids' (our animals) too much.

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Posted by snwb08

not weird I know a lot of people do that.

though I feel the opposite and we don't live together but i want to stay together the night before the wedding.... not sure how to deal with that since my parents want me to stay at their house even though I haven't lived there for 7 years.

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I think you should do whatever you want. Im staying at my mothers the night before for sure just because I feel like I shouldnt be with him the night before the wedding so its more exciting.

I guess everyone feels differently

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Posted by missliss

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Posted by snwb08

not weird I know a lot of people do that.

though I feel the opposite and we don't live together but i want to stay together the night before the wedding.... not sure how to deal with that since my parents want me to stay at their house even though I haven't lived there for 7 years.

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We lived together, and we stayed together like an other night the night before the wedding. I wouldn't have had it any other way. It was so great to fall asleep together the night before our wedding and to wake up together on our biggest day ever. We woke up so happy.

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that's what i thought! I told him that I would feel so much better if we woke up together the morning of - so he booked the hotel for the night before (since we will be out there and staying at the hotel the night of our wedding, it didn't make sense to stay in queens if i have to be in LI at the crack of dawn). I'm so happy about it and it's totally anti-traditional in my family so I'm trying to figure out how to tell them. I cannot tell my parents we are staying together they are way too old school.

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Posted by snwb08

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Posted by missliss

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Posted by snwb08

not weird I know a lot of people do that.

though I feel the opposite and we don't live together but i want to stay together the night before the wedding.... not sure how to deal with that since my parents want me to stay at their house even though I haven't lived there for 7 years.

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We lived together, and we stayed together like an other night the night before the wedding. I wouldn't have had it any other way. It was so great to fall asleep together the night before our wedding and to wake up together on our biggest day ever. We woke up so happy.

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that's what i thought! I told him that I would feel so much better if we woke up together the morning of - so he booked the hotel for the night before (since we will be out there and staying at the hotel the night of our wedding, it didn't make sense to stay in queens if i have to be in LI at the crack of dawn). I'm so happy about it and it's totally anti-traditional in my family so I'm trying to figure out how to tell them. I cannot tell my parents we are staying together they are way too old school.

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I swear we woke up like giddy school kids, it was actually funny....and I'm happy we got to share that moment on that day.

Just don't tell them. Tell them you're staying there alone. What they don't know won't hurt them.

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Posted by missliss

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Posted by snwb08

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Posted by missliss

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Posted by snwb08

not weird I know a lot of people do that.

though I feel the opposite and we don't live together but i want to stay together the night before the wedding.... not sure how to deal with that since my parents want me to stay at their house even though I haven't lived there for 7 years.

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We lived together, and we stayed together like an other night the night before the wedding. I wouldn't have had it any other way. It was so great to fall asleep together the night before our wedding and to wake up together on our biggest day ever. We woke up so happy.

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that's what i thought! I told him that I would feel so much better if we woke up together the morning of - so he booked the hotel for the night before (since we will be out there and staying at the hotel the night of our wedding, it didn't make sense to stay in queens if i have to be in LI at the crack of dawn). I'm so happy about it and it's totally anti-traditional in my family so I'm trying to figure out how to tell them. I cannot tell my parents we are staying together they are way too old school.

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I swear we woke up like giddy school kids, it was actually funny....and I'm happy we got to share that moment on that day.

Just don't tell them. Tell them you're staying there alone. What they don't know won't hurt them.

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that's probably what I'll do, though the whole 'i want to sleep in my own bed' would be a better story. fh doesn't get it - he rolls his eyes. but i swear my mom still thinks i will be snow white walking down the aisle

I stayed at the hotel the night before and DH stayed at his parents'. We said goodbye at the RD, and I shared my king size bed with my sis and one of my BMs, it was fun to wake up with them on such an important day.

Now ask me if I could have done a week with my mother beforehand? Hellz no! but that is just me!

Romantic and cute GO for it