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Will you have Memorial Candles???

vita930 Posted:

Will you have Memorial Candles???

I want to do that. I think it is a nice to touch to include those that have passed.

Where will you display them??? I am thinking of having them on the small table in the reception room.....maybe with some pictures...
tracy2246 Posted:

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I think we will do something like that-

Kerrycec Posted:

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in some way, but maybe not a candle, still unsure

M&S Sept12006 Posted:

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We're definitely having a memorial candle surrounded by pics of our loved ones that passed...they will be there with us in spirit.

mtdr1106 Posted:

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we are doing a memorial candle. it will be placed in the church and then transported with us to the recpetion hall. (at least this is my plan)

we also got the plasma screens with our dj package - and plan on having a few of our deceased pics up on the screen throughout the night.

i think your idea of a small table and a few pics is great!
cindyandkevin Posted:

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We're going to have a Memorial Candle for FH's mom, it will be up at the altar with our Unity Candle during the ceremony. We might also leave a seat open for her.

At the reception I'm thinking we'll put it on the same table as the Wish Bowl along with a nice picture of her. We have her ashes but I wouldn't bring them and risk something happening to them.
Beth1210 Posted:

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I am not doing a memorial candle- I lost my Mom last year- and my Dad really doesn't like the idea

STBH Posted:

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I def am!!!!

smurray Posted:

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Posted by M&S Sept12006

We're definitely having a memorial candle surrounded by pics of our loved ones that passed...they will be there with us in spirit.



That's what we're doing
RadioLau Posted:

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I hadn't thought about this before...I am going to see what the FI thinks.

October Bliss Posted:

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We're doing something, but haven't figured out exactly what yet.

conigs25 Posted:

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Im only mentioning our deceased relatives int he program. If i even HEAR my grandfathers name- I will lose it
JazzyT Posted:

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Yes we will have a memorial canble FH's best friend passed away, he was supposed to be a GM

maria5-6-05 Posted:

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We are definitely going to have one at the church and then bring it with us to the hall to burn on our table
atlast62506 Posted:

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I'll be doing the same thing! I think its such a nice way to honor past family members!

I want them to place a table outside the cocktail room (by the seating card table) for the candles and I will also have a pic frame with song lyrics printed in it to remember past family

after the cocktail hour i'm hoping they can move the table inside close to my dais where it will stay for the remainder of the evening! this is my plan now but depending on the reception hall it might change
Goldi1021 Posted:

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No. I just lost my father in July and it will be too hard for me (as well as my mother, siblings, nieces and nephews) to look over at a candle that will visually remind me that he isnt there - not so soon. All I have to do is think of him and I cry - every day. In my faith, a simcha (happy occasion) ALWAYS comes before sadness. That is why we are having the wedding as planned with as little sadness as possible. That doesnt mean I could forget the man who brought me into this world and made my wedding day possible. His heart and love lives inside of his family.

nickelpick Posted:

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WE are doing one for fh cousin who passed away in june she was 26 and in a car accident.. they were like brother and sister! we are also puting pictures of the 2 of them up...

beautyq115 Posted:

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YES...I want to remember my Grandfather and Aunt

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