My wedding is nine months off but I've been thinking about how some brides abstain before the wedding to make the wedding night that much sweeter....
To be truthful, I am in my PRIME and can't make it through a week, lol
Is anyone out there doing this? And for how long?
lwny427
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No way. Stress relief will be much needed around the wedding time!
Just not the night before.
Luvbsb4eva
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I could see if we had never done it before, but I don't really get the point of it if you've already done that... it's like torturing yourself!
empressdani
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probably will but not on purpose. FH works out of town often and likely will be on the road for a few weeks or months before the wedding....It's going to be scandalous on our big day....hahahahaha
Toucan311
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We're going to try 1 month.
RKellner
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We are probably for about a month.... My idea I love sex but after giving birth to my daughter, my sex drive went way down!!! But I want to wait to make it that much better on the wedding night and honeymoon!
missliss
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No, in my opinion I think it's silly. But that's me...
Future Mulligan
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imo i think its the stupidest thing i ever heard of
its already uncomfortable for me to do it if we haven't done it for a few days - it hurts me and it hurts FH.....im small, FH is big, so he does hurt me (and himself) sometimes especially if its been awhile - i cant imagine how painful it would be after a month or longer. i told FH that we are going to do it as much as possible the week of the wedding so that on our wedding night and during our honeymoon we'll both be able to enjoy it.
LoveRocks
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No way!! I need an outlet for all this wedding-related stress!
teenigrrl
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no no no!! i go crazy if a week has gone by. it's best stress relief out there,
Mici n KC
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Heck no! It makes you happier, keeps your skin clear, it's a form of exercise, it's a stress reliever, and we're just not abstaining!
FinallyEngaged
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We will try for 1 or 2 weeks b/4.... but we can not make any promises!!!!
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Posted by MiciB115
Heck no! It makes you happier, keeps your skin clear, it's a form of exercise, it's a stress reliever, and we're just not abstaining!
dittooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! plus its just plain fun!
kimnsteve
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no way !
love2plan1
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We are going to try 3 weeks, that's all I could bargin. He had a heart attack with that
Mrs. V 2008
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thats a cute idea..but i don't think im able to do that! lol
LeeLee111
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Yeah if we abstain its definitely not on purpose.
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Posted by missliss
No, in my opinion I think it's silly. But that's me...
Ditto
DnellD809
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Ehhh...probably not gonna happen!
Eternalyyourz
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I do think we will...but I havent really talked tohim about it, I will let you know when I do!
