wine glass poem????

Does anyone know the poem used at showers where the bridal party buys one wine glass for the bride, and there is a poem that goes with it that says something like:

everytime you have a fight, one person pours a glass of wine, and both have a sip of wine from the glass,....

i dunno does anyone know what i'm talking about?? I need that poem.... help please!! thanks!!!

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