It means bring a little something (I would say under $10), wrapped, without a tag saying who it is from to put in the "wishing well". The bride gets alot of little extras there. Ideas: kitchen gadgets or ANYTHING that you think they might need or like. I saw one recently where they gave her bride & groom oven mitts. I like them alot. Any shower I have given, I have included a wishing well. Sometimes they tell you what to bring which is a little too controlling in my opinion (haha) but I guess it avoids 8 people bringing a can opener.
What have you all chosen...or what suggestions do you have?? The monsiegneur did say we could choose some poetry instead...but he would need to see the selections..