Worried about a confrontation at my E-Party

beautyq115 Posted: Mar 15, 2005 02:14 PM

Worried about a confrontation at my E-Party

I posted about this a while ago BUT...brief recap...asked my cousin to be in the BP..she said no..gave me a BS answer infront of my whole family and last time I spoke to her she is acting like she was still a maybe about it...OK I have since replaced her and asked another cousin...NOW MY E-Party is coming up..what happens when we are like ok pictures of the Bride and Groom to Be and the BP....I am worried..my mother is prepared to tell her where to go!

What do you think??

newnybride2be Posted: Mar 15, 2005 02:22 PM

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IF she starts anything, tell her you already asked her and she said no. Its her lose, but you seriously can't be sitting around waiting to see if she feels like it or not. This is your event and you are in charge, dont let people bully you around or make you feel bad. If she starts a confrontation then most likely others will see her as being being ridiculous.

Preshy7 Posted: Mar 15, 2005 02:26 PM

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Just act suprised if she still wants to be in it- say something like 'oh you gave ma the vibe that you were not interested so I asked another person, sorry.' If it is really THAT bad, I would just include her.

gNi1125 Posted: Mar 15, 2005 02:28 PM

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I'd let your mom handle if anything arises. You have better things to think about at your e-party.

beautyq115 Posted: Mar 15, 2005 02:47 PM

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I know...I just worry way too much..thanks ladies My mother is so ready to tell her and my aunt off...this thing with my cousin was just one thing that happened on Christmas with their family

gNi1125 Posted: Mar 15, 2005 02:49 PM

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Posted by beautyq115

I know...I just worry way too much..thanks ladies My mother is so ready to tell her and my aunt off...this thing with my cousin was just one thing that happened on Christmas with their family

I remember the story. It's her loss. You can't wait around for her. She has to understand that.

hmpena Posted: Mar 15, 2005 03:09 PM

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Kathleen,

I think that if anything happens, let your mother handle it. Your cousin decided she didn't want to be in the wedding, so it is her loss! The party is your day to enjoy yourself. Your mom will be able to handle anything sticky.

sarahbelle Posted: Mar 15, 2005 04:08 PM

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I agree -- let your mom handle it. And if she behaves really inappropriately, no one will wonder why she isn't in the bp. Good luck!

Goldi1021 Posted: Mar 15, 2005 07:30 PM

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You deserve to enjoy this day. Don't let an attention seeker ruin it for you. I would imagine that anyone who is asked to be in a bridal party would answer rather quickly. If she couldnt do that then it is her issue. You have plans to make and organize.

CC59 Posted: Mar 15, 2005 07:56 PM

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I agree with the girls. If your mom has volunteered to handle it let her do it so you can enjoy your day. you can always deal with her next week, next month, or even next year!