MOH briefly mentioned to me something about my B-Party, which made me inquire.....
And now I'm afraid its going to be a huge suck fest... I feel so disappointed.
She mentioned by email that 'We have something more civilized than than vulgar / lewd / etc... traditional bachelor / bachelorette **** planned for you - you know me, not my style!! Personally, I don't understand the allure of having a naked / semi-naked stranger hump your leg.'
I am not looking to have male strippers/dancers or anything like that, but I did want to have a fun time!! I know my MOH is the biggest prude on the earth, and so now I am worried.....
MrsFigtobe09
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Then u need to tell her what you don't want to do for your B-Party.. Remember this is for you NOT THEM...
DKaye09
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Posted by MrsFigtobe09
Then u need to tell her what you don't want to do for your B-Party.. Remember this is for you NOT THEM...
Apparently something has already been planned. And therefore I feel like a big baby whining about it...
gina409
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hmm this is tough
if u dont want to flat out say anythig..i would try to find out exactly where u r going..then research and tr to fnd something exciting to do if u dontlke what they panned or u can go there afterd oing what they had planned
maybe its just a ploy so u dont know what it is??
BriansWifey
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if you dont think you're gonna have a good time or it's not going to be your style maybe tell her what you are expecting. im sure she wants to throw a kick @$$ b-party for you so hopefully she wont mind your suggestions. good luck!
melcc83
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for mine right from the begginning I told them ideas of what I wanted. I said we dont have to do all of it but this is what I want. SO thats what they chose from . This is YOUR bachlorette party, so you need to say something
little34
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so why dont you plan it...that is what I am doing...my MOH is helping me because she lives in the city and knows all the good places but for the most part I am calling the shots!
kimmaymb20
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I already told my girls what I want for a b-party and I know they will go above and beyond.
MrsCtoB
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You have mail!
DKaye09
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Thanks girls for trying to cheer me up...
My MOH is older, and as I already said, a huge prude, so I am worried that it will be boring and lame. I think I am really upset at the fact that I was not consulted AT ALL. No one asked what I'd like to do, or even who I'd like to invite!!
Also, the time frame that I thought was going to be my shower, isn't- apparently its the time frame for my B-Party...
I am trying not to be a big baby about it, but I am really upset.
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I would write back to her and say 'remember this is my b party.. not yours. Which means we should do stuff that is more my style, not yours. If a half naked man wants to hump my leg im ok with that'
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Posted by JennyAPH
I would write back to her and say 'remember this is my b party.. not yours. Which means we should do stuff that is more my style, not yours. If a half naked man wants to hump my leg im ok with that'
I think that's a perfect way to approach the situation. It doesn't come of rude or whiney and the end even keeps it light with humor.
meara
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is there anyone else in your BP that could step up. . like plan an AFTER PARTY for your Bach party. . so if you just do something more mellow . . you can go have some stranger hump your leg or something after. . JK about that. but you know. . go out and be a little wild!
or just find out about it and plan the after party yourself!!
