worst day of my life....need your support please ..a little update

Original post by Kerri Lynn

Aug 14, 2009 06:25 PM

so it looks like I will no longer be getting married along with the rest of you amazing ladies. Lorenzo just 'postponed' the wedding. Its a long story and I cant possible type it all right now. How do you postpone something like this I dont know. I think he might not be ready to get married . He says he wants to marry me but not right now. Im a mess and cant see the screen. I need all of your help and support thru this terrible time . I will still stop on the boards now and then cause Ive became friends with some of the girls. I love you all so much

A little update..after we spoke again that night, things werent much better. I have not spoken to him yesterday or today. I did call yesterday but had no answer or call back. This is the first time in almost 3 years that we have gone a day without speaking. I have no clue what to do. Thank you all again for your kind messages and prayers.

netsirk10 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 07:17 PM

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so sorry to hear this!

mag2010 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 07:25 PM

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I am so sorry! Hang in there, he may have a good reason for postponing the wedding. Couples postpone for various reasons but it doesn't mean the wedding will never happen.

Summertimegal424 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 07:26 PM

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im sooo sorry to hear that ...hugs for you

Lsorrent Posted: Aug 14, 2009 07:42 PM

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bridezilla2b Posted: Aug 14, 2009 07:45 PM

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brickbybrick Posted: Aug 14, 2009 07:56 PM

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I don't know you personally, buy my eyes got blurry when I read your story. I'm sorry

From your posts, you are obviously a beautiful person (inside and out). He's crazy not to snatch you up ASAP.

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Aug 14, 2009 07:57 PM

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Oh, Kerri - I'm so sorry to hear this.
Many many hugs to you right now
And as someone else said...postponing doesn't always mean cancelling.

Future Mrs H Posted: Aug 14, 2009 07:59 PM

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Kerri- the feast is on Fresh Pond this weekend. Why do you go and get out a bit.

MikesBride2B Posted: Aug 14, 2009 08:04 PM

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Hopefully he realizes what he's got in you and what a big mistake he'd be making not to marry you.

StaceYums81 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 08:05 PM

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I've been thinking about this and I think the postponement will make you stronger in the end. Although you are upset understandably in the long run I'd think its better than going through with it when something isnt right. It sounds as though hes mature enough at least to realize that. I know many couples who got married and by the next year were divorced and I think putting it off to deal with any issues (whether its his issues or both your issues) is the right thing to do...

Sandradv121 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 08:12 PM

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Oh sweetie I am soooo sorry!! If you need to vent, please vent...

Nichole2010 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 08:12 PM

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ohh my god im so shocked.. im soooo sorry!!! i really hope he comes around...you are a great person!

we are all here for you.

soonT0beMrsD Posted: Aug 14, 2009 08:21 PM

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im soo sorry. maybe he just needs a lil time to think things over. i hope the best for u!!

regy_k Posted: Aug 14, 2009 08:44 PM

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OMG Keri.... my heart just sank when I read this
I really hope everything works out and this is just some jitters along with being away from each other.
please call or FM if u need to talk and vent
be strong