Would any of you brides..

cantwait2bewed Posted: Jan 27, 2005 11:00 AM

Would any of you brides..

have kids before the wedding. It's so hard to wait.

JPbride Posted: Jan 27, 2005 11:03 AM

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I would like to wait to after we have been married a year or two.

Thumballina Posted: Jan 27, 2005 11:05 AM

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I would like to wait until after we've been married for at least two years...once you have kids everything changes...I want to enjoy time with my FH as a married couple for awhile...

LMFitz Posted: Jan 27, 2005 11:06 AM

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Now that we've got the date selected I'd prefer not to have kids first. Of course, we've had a few close calls, which prompted me to say that it doesn't matter if we're married first or not, but in my heart, I want my kids born into a marriage. I'd like some time with just the two of us, knowing that kids will take over everything.

PrincessConsuela Posted: Jan 27, 2005 11:07 AM

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omg i am definetly waiting 5 or 6 years after the wedding.
We want to be stable have a house and travel a bit first. then kids....

as the after school special would say 'not me not now'

LMFitz Posted: Jan 27, 2005 11:13 AM

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Posted by PrincessConsuela

as the after school special would say 'not me not now'

Too funny..

JP&EP Posted: Jan 27, 2005 11:34 AM

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Posted by Thumballina

I would like to wait until after we've been married for at least two years...once you have kids everything changes...I want to enjoy time with my FH as a married couple for awhile...

Same here

amstellitelady Posted: Jan 27, 2005 11:50 AM

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Posted by JP&EP

Posted by Thumballina

I would like to wait until after we've been married for at least two years...once you have kids everything changes...I want to enjoy time with my FH as a married couple for awhile...

Same here

Ditto

salsbride06 Posted: Jan 27, 2005 11:53 AM

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i think that i would like to wait. i cant wait to have children but the wedding planning is alot to deal with....dont think i want to throw in pregnancy in the mix also.....lol

hmpena Posted: Jan 27, 2005 12:20 PM

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I definitely want to wait. It's just too hard for us right now and FH has major medical problems. I don't know what i would do taking care of both right now! I am hoping to wait about 2 years before we have children.

coxmandi Posted: Jan 27, 2005 01:21 PM

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Not me! We have enough trouble with the dog and cat. I couldn't imagine doing everything I do now and having a kid.

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Jan 27, 2005 01:31 PM

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Nope, we've already talked about how we want to have a few years with just each other before kids come into the picture.

babslovesjoey Posted: Jan 27, 2005 02:32 PM

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cjb88 Posted: Jan 27, 2005 02:35 PM

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Posted by cantwait2bewed

have kids before the wedding. It's so hard to wait.

FI agress with you!!!

I don't!! I can wait!!!

gNi1125 Posted: Jan 27, 2005 04:37 PM

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Def. want to wait 2 or 3 years after we get married.

beautyq115 Posted: Jan 27, 2005 04:40 PM

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Since we won't live together before we get married we need to get used to being married and living together.

Maybe wait a year or two and then start trying.

sarahbelle Posted: Jan 27, 2005 06:23 PM

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I want to wait a little while. We will be pretty broke after this wedding, and I want to move out of our apartment before I consider having kids.

marymoon Posted: Jan 27, 2005 06:30 PM

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NO WAY!

First of all my family would go buts but also they sau the first year is the most difficult and I don't want to complicate that. I also want to spend a few years just enjoying being with my husband, travelling, etc. once you have kids all of that takes a backseat! Also i want to have a house before I have children!

Jen2999 Posted: Jan 27, 2005 06:31 PM

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I get baby fever every once in a while and FH tells me I need to 'calm down about that' LOL

so... I got a puppy and holy crap it is just like having an infant