Would you?
Invite someone who you were fairly close with for 2 years, saw a lot during the week then stopped seeing once another mutual friendship went sour? I want to make an adult decision and not be 'high school' about it. Here's a little background:
My friend (a male), myself and a former BM used to hang out after work constantly and sometimes on the weekend - we even called ourselves the happy hour crew. BM and FH had a huge fight over football - I know it's silly but obviously there were other issues.. (not sure if you remember) and BM took herself out of the wedding. Subsequently ended our friendship (her choice). Since then (last fall) I have not hung out with said friend nearly as much since he is close with ex-BM. Like super close.
I have other mutual friends who I remain in contact with that also know ex-BM but it is safe to say that the friendship with male in question is not what it used to be.
I am having doubts about inviting him to the wedding because 1) I know he's super close with ex-BM and he likes gossip 2) We've drifted apart 3) He's never really been cool with FH.
Honest opinions please.
My friend (a male), myself and a former BM used to hang out after work constantly and sometimes on the weekend - we even called ourselves the happy hour crew. BM and FH had a huge fight over football - I know it's silly but obviously there were other issues.. (not sure if you remember) and BM took herself out of the wedding. Subsequently ended our friendship (her choice). Since then (last fall) I have not hung out with said friend nearly as much since he is close with ex-BM. Like super close.
I have other mutual friends who I remain in contact with that also know ex-BM but it is safe to say that the friendship with male in question is not what it used to be.
I am having doubts about inviting him to the wedding because 1) I know he's super close with ex-BM and he likes gossip 2) We've drifted apart 3) He's never really been cool with FH.
Honest opinions please.
