or am I overreacting? Last night I went out with a couple of friends, which I used to do alot more when my FI and I first started dating. I was meeting my friends at 8, and on my way home (around 1am) I called home to let my FI I was on my way (he usually can't sleep if I'm not home, so I knew he'd probably be up, and he calls me at all hours if he's working or out) He was so fri**en rude! I asked if I had woken him up, and he said no, but was so short with me, didn't ask how my night was, nothing! So got home and he was in bed watching TV, went over and gave him a kiss hello, was walking into the bathroom, and he rolled over and said he was going to sleep. No goodnight, no nothing. He still to this minute has not asked anything about how my night was, and I think that's inconsiderate. Am I over reacting?
dkga1026
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It sounds like he wasn't too happy that you went out last night with friends. Maybe he had planned to spend the evening with you and was disappointed? Ask him if anything is wrong..
Kathy116
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I'd ask him what's the matter, and you know something's up since he's acting this way. Is it possible that he's a little jealous that you spent this time out with the ladies instead of with him?
Maybe he just had a bad day...I don't know, but you should tell him how your feeling.
The Original 2nd-time-around
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I told him at least 5 days ago that I was going, so if he had a problem with it, I think he should have said it then. And I made it clear to him when we first got together that I am not the type to ditch her friends once she is dating someone. I told him I still want to go out with friends, and that I have no problem with him doing the same.
Irishbride
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I would probably feel the same way that you do. I would talk to him. He must have something on his mind.