Would you be mad? LONG
So I was friends with this girl I met in college as an undergrad, more like acquaintances, but still we would chat and keep in contact even after graduation(and she graduated earlier than me)
So she got engaged, and everyday I would get emails/ims about every vent, frustration, excitement she had, and I was a good listener and let her let it all out.
Anyway then I got engaged the year before her wedding. It seemed that everytime I mentioned something shed overshadow it with her wedding details, but I just figured shes excited and she was getting married soon soI couldnt blame her.
Anyways, went to her shower gave a nice gift, went to the wedding gave a nice monetary gift. Still kept in contact with her.
Then a few months after her wedding, we didnt really talk as much anymore. Maybe an email once a month, if that. Both of us had crazy schedules though and more so me, but regardless I never got a thank you card. i know people have up to a year to send them, but it was getting close and for someone who was so set on doing everything with proper ettiquette I was surprised.
so a few months back I sent her an email asking how she was, etc. mentioned the thank you. She said everything had gone out a few months after her wedding, and it prob. got lost in the mail.
You would think she'd say let me send you aonther one..NOPE!!! she said if she still had an extras she'd send the photo that she had with the thank yous, and i typed out my address just in case in the email.
Never got it!!!
I let it go. About a month ago I sent her an emailk asking her for her new address(since she moved few months back, according to one of her emails from then) so i can mail her a STD. Well never heard back.
I resent it saying did you ever receive this eamil(i was having network problems at the time), but never heard back still.
At this point should I just completely forget about it, not worth the aggravation.
Would you be angry?
Signed,
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So she got engaged, and everyday I would get emails/ims about every vent, frustration, excitement she had, and I was a good listener and let her let it all out.
Anyway then I got engaged the year before her wedding. It seemed that everytime I mentioned something shed overshadow it with her wedding details, but I just figured shes excited and she was getting married soon soI couldnt blame her.
Anyways, went to her shower gave a nice gift, went to the wedding gave a nice monetary gift. Still kept in contact with her.
Then a few months after her wedding, we didnt really talk as much anymore. Maybe an email once a month, if that. Both of us had crazy schedules though and more so me, but regardless I never got a thank you card. i know people have up to a year to send them, but it was getting close and for someone who was so set on doing everything with proper ettiquette I was surprised.
so a few months back I sent her an email asking how she was, etc. mentioned the thank you. She said everything had gone out a few months after her wedding, and it prob. got lost in the mail.
You would think she'd say let me send you aonther one..NOPE!!! she said if she still had an extras she'd send the photo that she had with the thank yous, and i typed out my address just in case in the email.
Never got it!!!
I let it go. About a month ago I sent her an emailk asking her for her new address(since she moved few months back, according to one of her emails from then) so i can mail her a STD. Well never heard back.
I resent it saying did you ever receive this eamil(i was having network problems at the time), but never heard back still.
At this point should I just completely forget about it, not worth the aggravation.
Would you be angry?
Signed,
