Would you be upset?

I had a friend whom I was very close with in the past. We became friendly and did everything together. I went to her baby shower and her and I have a mutual friend together who is in my bridal party and pregnant. Her baby shower is shortly after my wedding.

I invited this other girl to my shower (she didnt come) and to my wedding (just found out she's not coming).

I was slightly offended and thought she would have come to my wedding because we were pretty close. She said I will see when I have a baby how my social life changes drastically and said 'i hope you dont hate me' in a text message.

Am I overreacting? I am hurt because I felt like I did the right thing for her and I didnt want a gift, I just wanted her to come to my wedding at the very least.

Opinions please...tell me I'm being an emotional bridezilla. FH thinks its messed up of her lol

How long ago did she have the baby? My sister had a baby 3 months ago, and her social life has DRASTICALLY changed. She said the other day, 'If you weren't my sister, I probably wouldn't go to a wedding in July after having a baby in April.' My sister took her infant daughter to the wedding, but it was definitely a big to-do because my sister and her husband had to take turns holding/taking care of the baby (who was, BTW, so incredibly well behaved at the wedding).

I would probably give her the benefit of the doubt, especially if the baby is 3 months old or younger.

Unfortunately i am dealing with this as well.. my best friend and BM had a baby 1.5 years ago and she completely changed. I barely see her or talk to her anymore. I helped her plan her entire wedding and she doesn't even ask me how mine is coming.. I feel like my wedding is a burden to her

I am sure she is busy so I try and not let it bother me.. but I wish she didnt change so much. I know alot of other ppl that have had babies and are still the same old person +1

personally I think thats BS that the baby is 2 and she rsvp'ed no... get a babysitter..jesus.. Doesnt she WANT to get away from being a mom for one night to celebrate with an old friend?!? FYI I have a friend (not even a reallly close one) that had a baby 2 months ago and she RSVP'ed Yes. So if I was in your place yes I would be upset.

ok im done rambling

At first I kinda agreed with the 2nd post but if the baby is TWO years old. I would be totally upset....can't she leave him w/ a family member for ONE night????

Thats a little redic to me. Sorry

Thanks for all your input girls. I am just very sensitive lately and realizing how people can be kinda cold to you.

I just feel so stupid for thinking she would at least want a night to party with her hubby and no baby. Guess not.

I think the bottom line is she just didnt want to be bothered seeing me get married

My best friend has a 2 yr old daughter and is my BM...she has made it to my shower & bachelorette party. If your friend really wanted to make it she could have. Tell her to stop using her baby as an excuse. I can understand if she just had the baby and he/she was a couple of months old...but give me a break- she couldnt make it to anything??? Whatever, I would tell her the deal and move on. Im sorry about your friend...the people who care about you will be there