would you be upset if...

misawa18 Posted: Jul 25, 2004 05:45 PM

would you be upset if...

If your FMIL wore a dress to your wedding...that looks like a every day dress....her excuse is 'i already had my wedding' meaning her daughters....***...this is her son! and trust me ..she has the money ..so that can not be an excuse

monters Posted: Jul 25, 2004 05:47 PM

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YES, definitely...I would feel insulted..why not have your FH say something to her..

Happybride2005 Posted: Jul 25, 2004 05:49 PM

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Yes. How often does your son get married. I would like she would want her dress to be a little fancy

misawa18 Posted: Jul 25, 2004 05:49 PM

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When she pulled it out of her closet to show me .. i was like oh thats nice....but when she said..yeah i might wear that to the wedding im like whos wedding? She wa slike yours... I was like OH!!!!! lol

but then i thought... i have like 2 years to worry....she def could change her mind..

Butterflybride Posted: Jul 25, 2004 05:49 PM

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Posted by monters

YES, definitely...I would feel insulted..why not have your FH say something to her..

I agree. That's a little rude. It's still a special day.

RedHead Posted: Jul 25, 2004 06:10 PM

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definately

LuvMyMichael Posted: Jul 25, 2004 06:12 PM

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Well thats true, she could change her mind in that time....so don't get too upset. Otherwise I would not let it bother me. You focus on the bride!

Bunnymonkey Posted: Jul 25, 2004 06:12 PM

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with a two year wait she may change her mind...wait until the excitement of the wedding starts to hit, if she has moolah, i bet she will hit the stores!

April302005 Posted: Jul 25, 2004 06:25 PM

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I'd be upset also.. Tell her that you are more than willing to go and help her find something to fit the occasion or have your FH lay the guilt on her.