1) College buddies you and your FH had while you were dating, and are the reason you and your FH are together, but since graduating (5yrs ago) haven't seen or really hung out with? Talked maybe once a year...
2) A family considered 'Friends' of the family that were close until a major disturbance occurred between your sister and their daughter? now parents talk to them very ittle but I haven't. I also don't want drama between the girls at the wedding...
My FH and I are toying with these invites.. They were all on our inital guest list but we can use the 'room'.. it is a total of 6 college friends/guest and 7-8 'friends of the family'/guest
That's a lot of people... ( we did decide to not send them STD's just in case)
JenBill61210
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1- i would say yes... it couldn't hurt just to send out an invite as a courtesey.
2- i would be hesitant about sending these because it might cause unnecessary drama and you don't want to deal w/ that esp at your wedding!
bulldoglover
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1 - i would say no - but then again, i want to keep my wedding very small.
2 - also no, don't need extra drama to stress over, if they were family and not friends of family then maybe.
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I wouldn't invite either. Maybe have your first set (college friends) on the B-list. Or invite them if you don't think they will come. I was planning on inviting some of my old friends, but they aren't on my guest list anymore. If we talk a few times a year via Facebook, then I am kinda letting go.
JAAMS
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I would say yes to the first group, no to the second
angel9274
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little j
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1 - yes. people are busy, but you still keep in touch. plus, if they will make the party fun, why not>! its like old times! good times!
2 - no way.
MrsC2010
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Posted by little j
1 - yes. people are busy, but you still keep in touch. plus, if they will make the party fun, why not>! its like old times! good times!
2 - no way.
ITA
stinenandy2010
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1 - B list people
2 - No
mrsdraskin2009
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Posted by JenBill61210
1- i would say yes... it couldn't hurt just to send out an invite as a courtesey.
2- i would be hesitant about sending these because it might cause unnecessary drama and you don't want to deal w/ that esp at your wedding!
ITA!
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Posted by MrsC2010
Posted by little j
1 - yes. people are busy, but you still keep in touch. plus, if they will make the party fun, why not>! its like old times! good times!
2 - no way.
ITA
I agree with this too!
StaceYums81
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I say put them on the B list if you are doing that, if not I wouldn't invited either of them...
SummerBride10
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1st ones- if you need more people/can afford to have them - YES. If your buget is tight already - NO
