does anyone have ppl who question everything you do??? like y are both sets of parents coming when we book the RH? well it would be appropriate since both sets are contributing to the cost!!! 'um excuse, y do u care????'
sorry had to vent
MrsDtoBe09
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That stinks... I have very few people asking because I try not to share with lots of people and invite questions... I get too nasty too quickly when people ask stupid questions!
Cacarina
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I completely agree with you. I am having both sets of parents come because both sets have a right to be there. They are both contributing to this wedding and they should both have a say! People are SO rude and don't know when you BACK OFF sometimes.
Cinigs917
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yeah i get that its definatly annoying my question i usually get is why are you doing planning now its way to early.
good luck! ignore ppls annoying questions
beram63
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i work in a school, and that sort of unsolicited advice is unavoidable, and not just with weddings but babies and house-buying, and every other major life decision!
it's like people think 'hey, i had a wedding' or 'i've BEEN to a wedding, so i must know what's best for you.'
gotta take it in stride.
panjay
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I've been engaged less than a week but have already found that people really like to give their opinions when it comes to wedding planning. It's very irritating.
Jen822
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it just bothers me and i try not to let it!!!
like, why r they giving their 2 cents when i didnt ask! ok, so i am inviting both sides, who cares? is it your wedding? no!
another question was, y ami shoppping for my wedding dress so soon since im getting married in 09, again, IS IT YOUR BUSINESS????i only told like 2 ppl (other than family) that i got my dress! how sad is that that i cant even tell my BM's cuz i know their reaction will be a bunch of annoying ?'s
sorry it feels good to express this esp to girls who are going through the same thing
MzHopesAlot
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id want to go by myself with fh thats an intimate thing!
little34
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People are awful!! Don't even answer these people just ask them why they even care?? Say Im sorry I thought this was MY wedding!
SparklingBride10
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don't pay attention, its not worth it.
soonT0beMrsD
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yes there are a certain few people that ask me odd questions a none of your buisiness type questions such as.... did you fh buy your ring or is he financing it? like why the hell do you care !!?? people can be soo nosey!
dazies1011
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This didnt happend to me and if it did I would end up getting nasty with them
Summertimegal424
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ugh i can't stand this woman at my job i was talkin to one of my bf and telling her how we were goin to look at a hall, and she was sitting in the break room, eating her own lunch and it wasn't OPEN conversation and she had the nerve to be like 'omg dont go there its so disgusting the food is awful the place sis so small.. blah blah blah' i was like omg i can't belive she would even say that to me
so then like a few days go by and shes like how did u like '''' and i was like it was really nice but not for us! iand she was like told ya so
and like no joke like every week she asks pick a place yet?
panjay
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People keep asking me if we picked a place yet too and it's only been 5 days. I've decided not to tell anyone at work where I plan on looking b/c I don't want to hear what everyone has to say. No matter where it is, someone is bound to have something negative to say.
JKFris09
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One BM was a bit annoyed I think when I told him both sets of our parents were coming to the tasting but I didnt care I needed opinions on the food and I wanted them to see what we were thinking about booking!
