WOW Wedding attitudes!

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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

I'm sorry Heather... why do you even know what's going on with your shower?

I had probs with mine too, but then I told everyone who was telling me things to shut the fukk up about it.

I haven't given it another thought since.

Tell everyone to leave you out of it...

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My involvement is only as far as giving them the guest list! I know nothing else, but this is a huge drama starter!!

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Posted by jeanyus27

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Posted by Soon2beMrsC

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Posted by Mimacat

OMG people act as if this is about THEM and not about FH and I!! VERY frustrating.

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I agree 100%.......most have been so understanding and wonderful through it all but then there is the one or two that deserve to be strangled

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I love this site! I've never been around a group of people that are all going through the same things as i am! It makes me feel a lot better to know i'm not alone. And when things go great, its nice to be around a group of girls that are as excited as i am when an RSVP arrives, or when i hit double digits!

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I agree. I love that I'm not completly alone. I sat on my couch crying this morning because my BP making me nuts about the B-party and when I try and talk to my FH about it, he gets snotty about how I'm not supposed to be involved in the planning, so he doesnt want to hear about it. (well, some of you know, my MOH dropped out on me and I made my 9 year old daughter my MOH in her place, its not as if she can plan the B-Party!) UGGGG I'm so with you, weddings allow people to show their TRUE colors!!

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Posted by lkdrnw

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Posted by Mimacat

OMG people act as if this is about THEM and not about FH and I!! VERY frustrating.

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My mother actually told me to suck up everything that I don't like about my shower cause it is not for me--it is for FMIL and her--oh ok good to know--So do I need to show up????

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Seriously?! That's only funny because it's SOOOO not true...if it weren't for you getting married they wouldn't have a shower to plan at all...crazy moms! Keep them away from the champagne punch that day!

This topic made me laugh out loud, and i am so happy that when i clicked on Yes, i hate everyone, that i was in the majority! Everyone thinks i am crazy for stressing, and i find every single person to be a pain in the butt!!!

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Posted by Mimacat

OMG people act as if this is about THEM and not about FH and I!! VERY frustrating.

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oh yeah - well how about if someone actually SAYS that to you!!! VERBATIM!!!!! 'I really hope you're not going to make this all about you and FH!!!'

yeah - i wont even TELL you who that came from - you'd all throw up

happiest times call for morons to unleash

im sorry heather

Its been an interesting process

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Posted by Mimacat

OMG people act as if this is about THEM and not about FH and I!! VERY frustrating.

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I THINK WE KNOW THE SAME PEOPLE! just ignore!