WR- BM issue... cont. from before the summer drama... i need kind words, hugs and some advice...

xXxNovember08xXx Posted: Aug 29, 2007 12:30 PM

WR- BM issue... cont. from before the summer drama... i need kind words, hugs and some advice...

deleated

klanghan Posted: Aug 29, 2007 12:33 PM

Re: WR- BM issue... cont. from before the summer drama... i need kind words, hugs and some advice...

sorry that i have no words of wisdom for you, but that really stinks, i know it would be hard to do but maybe you can talk to her about this? (I say it will be hard since apparently she doesn't respond to anything) Is she like this with your other roommates? Have you talked to them to get their opinions? Good luck, I hope things get better!!

AmandaLynn04 Posted: Aug 29, 2007 12:34 PM

Re: WR- BM issue... cont. from before the summer drama... i need kind words, hugs and some advice...

I'm sorry this has happened.

IMO, you may need to write an e-mail or make a call, and flat out say, 'Do you not want to be a BM anymore?'

She's avoiding for a reason, maybe jealousy, maybe she feels slighted for some reason, who knows...... but it seems as though you might just have to come out and say it.

GinaBambina08 Posted: Aug 29, 2007 12:34 PM

Re: WR- BM issue... cont. from before the summer drama... i need kind words, hugs and some advice...

I have one word: Jealousy...i'm so sorry that you're going through this when I think of some good words of advice, i'll post again..

yelley77 Posted: Aug 29, 2007 12:37 PM

Re: WR- BM issue... cont. from before the summer drama... i need kind words, hugs and some advice...

I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I agree with the girls... I would flat out ask her if she didn't want to be part of your day anymore -- people who ignore friends are doing it for a reason (I'm not saying you deserve it, I have a feeling she has her own issues going on, jealousy, etc)

Keep us posted as to what you do!! and good luck!

xXxNovember08xXx Posted: Aug 29, 2007 12:39 PM

Re: WR- BM issue... cont. from before the summer drama... i need kind words, hugs and some advice...

JimmysPants Posted: Aug 29, 2007 12:55 PM

Re: WR- BM issue... cont. from before the summer drama... i need kind words, hugs and some advice...

I feel that this is her way of saying all those times I tried to hang out with you and you wouldnt (or couldnt) now this is my time to get even with you and so she is not purposely returning your emails etc. Kinda childish but thats why you need to call her and confront the situation head on and thats the only way things will get resolved. Confront the issue. After all, isnt your friendship worth it??