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WR VENT...

july06bride Posted:

WR VENT...

I have not vented in over 5,000 posts, BUT here it is ...I am frustrated!

Some people are just ruining the surprise for my shower! I an nosy I know that...BUT I wanted my shower to be a surprise and my mom I KNOW is working SOOOO hard on it. MY FMIL put it in Spanish on her calendar ....I saw it! I don't speak Spanish but I understand it....Anyway, I tried to ignore it and pretend she was talking about something else.

Yesterday, I was talking to my MOH about Bachelorette parties and she told me she had to work in April so we couldnt do it then..HOw would she know she had to work in April...SO that she really didnt do anything wrong, BUT she could have come up with a better reason...no biggie though.

BUT, just now my cousin RUINED it! She was talking to me online and She said, what is going on in April because your mom told BOB(my uncle) he needs to take Randy to LI? I thought your dad wasnt having a retirement party. I said ...he isnt...there is too much going on with the wedding. Then she says, WEll I dont know why your mom would want them to come and she tells me the dates....She kept going with it and basically without telling me, she told me...

I know it is not a big deal... BUT I have never had a surprise party...

I am NOT going to tell anyone (BUT FH ALREADY KNOWS) that I know. I want to give everyone the excitement I wish I were having.

Sorry to vent, BUT I just feel bad...
ewickens Posted:

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AAAWWWW!!!! Sorry this happened - but be happy that your family is coming together for you! That's the most important part!

july06bride Posted:

Re: WR VENT...


Posted by ewickens

AAAWWWW!!!! Sorry this happened - but be happy that your family is coming together for you! That's the most important part!



Very true! Thank you for putting it into perspective for me
JessicaM. Posted:

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aw, sweetie, I know it sux. people have been trying to make my shower a surprise, but drama happened surrounding the whole thing...so it was kind of inevitable that I found out..

HOWEVER, there ARE a few things that will remain a surprise...WHERE the shower is. since fh knows you know the day, tell him to take you and blinfold you til the very end, so it's a total surprise where you are....

not to mention..who comes and how many show up, plus all the decor and effort- you won't know the theme, or what exactly off your registery you are getting (DON'T PEEK! LOL)

you can salvage some of the surprise and have a GREAT time...don't fret sweetheart!
cjb88 Posted:

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i figured mine out too without evenbeing snoopy... it stinks!

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