WR VENT...
I have not vented in over 5,000 posts, BUT here it is ...I am frustrated!
Some people are just ruining the surprise for my shower! I an nosy I know that...BUT I wanted my shower to be a surprise and my mom I KNOW is working SOOOO hard on it. MY FMIL put it in Spanish on her calendar ....I saw it! I don't speak Spanish but I understand it....Anyway, I tried to ignore it and pretend she was talking about something else.
Yesterday, I was talking to my MOH about Bachelorette parties and she told me she had to work in April so we couldnt do it then..HOw would she know she had to work in April...SO that she really didnt do anything wrong, BUT she could have come up with a better reason...no biggie though.
BUT, just now my cousin RUINED it! She was talking to me online and She said, what is going on in April because your mom told BOB(my uncle) he needs to take Randy to LI? I thought your dad wasnt having a retirement party. I said ...he isnt...there is too much going on with the wedding. Then she says, WEll I dont know why your mom would want them to come and she tells me the dates....She kept going with it and basically without telling me, she told me...
I know it is not a big deal... BUT I have never had a surprise party...
I am NOT going to tell anyone (BUT FH ALREADY KNOWS) that I know. I want to give everyone the excitement I wish I were having.
Sorry to vent, BUT I just feel bad...
Some people are just ruining the surprise for my shower! I an nosy I know that...BUT I wanted my shower to be a surprise and my mom I KNOW is working SOOOO hard on it. MY FMIL put it in Spanish on her calendar ....I saw it! I don't speak Spanish but I understand it....Anyway, I tried to ignore it and pretend she was talking about something else.
Yesterday, I was talking to my MOH about Bachelorette parties and she told me she had to work in April so we couldnt do it then..HOw would she know she had to work in April...SO that she really didnt do anything wrong, BUT she could have come up with a better reason...no biggie though.
BUT, just now my cousin RUINED it! She was talking to me online and She said, what is going on in April because your mom told BOB(my uncle) he needs to take Randy to LI? I thought your dad wasnt having a retirement party. I said ...he isnt...there is too much going on with the wedding. Then she says, WEll I dont know why your mom would want them to come and she tells me the dates....She kept going with it and basically without telling me, she told me...
I know it is not a big deal... BUT I have never had a surprise party...
I am NOT going to tell anyone (BUT FH ALREADY KNOWS) that I know. I want to give everyone the excitement I wish I were having.
Sorry to vent, BUT I just feel bad...