W*T*F FH!!!!!!!!!!!!
i have no idea what just happened!
I officially sent out my wedding invitations the end of march. ever since then, FH has been giving me straggler's to send out. Yesterday, he gave me the address of his childhood friend, whom he hsan't seen in years but talks to every 3 or 4 months on the phone. Fine, you want to invite him, i don't care, it really doesn't bother me.
He has another friend that he grew up with, that they were really close. but then the friends got maried, had a child and got divorced and Fh got busy with work so they grew apart. they reconnected on FB last year and I even became friendly with this friend on FB as well. I reached out to him and asked if he would like to come to the wedding as a surprise for FH because lately we have had to get pictures and stuff ready for the photographer and he ran across pics of this friend and FH together and he became nostalgic and talked about how much fun they used to have.
I called FH about ½ ago to give him the news, thiking he would be so excited, well boy was i wrong! He flipped out at me! telling me he was crazy pissed off and he hung up. I couldn't even believe it! I sent him a text telling him i don't understand this outburst butnow i'm pissed off as well. these last few weeks have been crazy stressful for us. Murphy's law in full effect! the apt we need to move into may not be ready and we will have no where to go once we are married. work stress on my end - its so slow there may be layoffs, his work stress, his job hadn't been taking out city taxes and he was just penalized $2K and they just told him they won't pay him for a portion of his HM time off...some trouble at home on both ends and seriosuly the list goes on and on.
I basically told him i've had enough and i can't take all the bs with the wedding and everything else anymore. he calls me 10 minutes later and asks me why i invited him. itold him i thought it was be a nice surprise. he says well now i have to invite his brother. i ask him why? just because you invite one person doesn't mean you have to invite both. i said that's not true. he says, i used to hang out with his brother too sometimes. so what! this friend already agreed to come on facebook so i have to send him an invite now.
Fh tells me i should have asked him first, but i thought i was doing something special and sweet and didn't want to ruin the surprise before i knew he was coming or not.
Am i wrong? i don't understand what set him off or why he would be so mad
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I officially sent out my wedding invitations the end of march. ever since then, FH has been giving me straggler's to send out. Yesterday, he gave me the address of his childhood friend, whom he hsan't seen in years but talks to every 3 or 4 months on the phone. Fine, you want to invite him, i don't care, it really doesn't bother me.
He has another friend that he grew up with, that they were really close. but then the friends got maried, had a child and got divorced and Fh got busy with work so they grew apart. they reconnected on FB last year and I even became friendly with this friend on FB as well. I reached out to him and asked if he would like to come to the wedding as a surprise for FH because lately we have had to get pictures and stuff ready for the photographer and he ran across pics of this friend and FH together and he became nostalgic and talked about how much fun they used to have.
I called FH about ½ ago to give him the news, thiking he would be so excited, well boy was i wrong! He flipped out at me! telling me he was crazy pissed off and he hung up. I couldn't even believe it! I sent him a text telling him i don't understand this outburst butnow i'm pissed off as well. these last few weeks have been crazy stressful for us. Murphy's law in full effect! the apt we need to move into may not be ready and we will have no where to go once we are married. work stress on my end - its so slow there may be layoffs, his work stress, his job hadn't been taking out city taxes and he was just penalized $2K and they just told him they won't pay him for a portion of his HM time off...some trouble at home on both ends and seriosuly the list goes on and on.
I basically told him i've had enough and i can't take all the bs with the wedding and everything else anymore. he calls me 10 minutes later and asks me why i invited him. itold him i thought it was be a nice surprise. he says well now i have to invite his brother. i ask him why? just because you invite one person doesn't mean you have to invite both. i said that's not true. he says, i used to hang out with his brother too sometimes. so what! this friend already agreed to come on facebook so i have to send him an invite now.
Fh tells me i should have asked him first, but i thought i was doing something special and sweet and didn't want to ruin the surprise before i knew he was coming or not.
Am i wrong? i don't understand what set him off or why he would be so mad
