If you know someone definitely would have given you a check or cash gift and they came to your wedding and you got home and theres nothing at all from them. No card no gift nothing. Plus - I see this person every day and no word about it ..
Now its time to send thank you cards so what should I do?
little j
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idk. this happened to me. i havent said anything yet. and its been months. i figure in the TY card, i will be really brief. if they ask me, ill tell them i didnt get anything
idk......such a weird situation
Im_My_Own_Princess
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I would just write 'thank you for coming' I'm sure if they DID give a card and it got lost that they'll bring it up... you have to assume at this point that they didn't write a check cause they'd notice the money didn't come out of their account yet.. so IF they gave a card it most likely had cash.
you don't want to bring it up to them in the event that they didn't give a gift and feel weird... it suc ks that people do that... but it does happen.
Cookie De La Devine
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I think if it was a check the gifter would realize it wasnt cashed and would inquire about it themselves, Cash is diff- was there a card? Could it of gotten lost in any of the other weding things from the hall?
latinaj
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ugh
hate them
send a TY Card and just say thank you for coming.... they should get the point
SoontobeMrs.Brown
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There wasnt even a card from this person. But I KNOW he would never not give one.
Ncarlo
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agreed! someone who didn't attend my bridal shower gave us martini glasses for my bridal shower- and i wrote them a thank you for the martini glasses.. and she called me to tell me she ordered wine goblets... and good thing I wrote that! sooo they will get it hopefully!
MrsSx2
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I am having this same problem! I have 2 no-gifters who I am sure would have brought one (i think). Its too awkward to ask for it. I would just write them a 'Thank you for coming' TY card. Hopefully they'll get the hint!
