WWYD? Update
FH is friend's with a couple that have been married for 10 years. They are planning to renew their vows and throw a big wedding since they had a civil wedding.
So I find out the date two weeks before its going to happen which is this saturday. I was waiting to see if we would get invited because if we didn't there was no way I was going to invite them to our wedding (that might sound b**chy).
Anyways they said they were going to deliver the invitations to us and we still have not got them. They say that they want us there, but have been to busy to stop by. Couldn't they just mail it? Are we not worth 44 cents?
I told FH that I don't want to go unless I have an invitation and he totally disagrees. He only cares that we were verbally invited. I just feel like we are not completely wanted there. I know that I am going to have to get them a card and money as a gift if I go. But if they can't invite us properly why should I bother spending money on them.
Am I overreacting? Should I just go?
**********************UPDATE*********************
So I ended up going because the couple called and said they really wanted us there. I decided to make FH happy and go. We ended up giving them a small gift amount. It was obvious that she really didn't give many invitations out because the room was set up for about 55 people and about 30 showed up and at least ten of that was family.
I could tell the bride was pissed that she paid all of that money and didn't fill up the room. I had a good time at least.
So I find out the date two weeks before its going to happen which is this saturday. I was waiting to see if we would get invited because if we didn't there was no way I was going to invite them to our wedding (that might sound b**chy).
Anyways they said they were going to deliver the invitations to us and we still have not got them. They say that they want us there, but have been to busy to stop by. Couldn't they just mail it? Are we not worth 44 cents?
I told FH that I don't want to go unless I have an invitation and he totally disagrees. He only cares that we were verbally invited. I just feel like we are not completely wanted there. I know that I am going to have to get them a card and money as a gift if I go. But if they can't invite us properly why should I bother spending money on them.
Am I overreacting? Should I just go?
**********************UPDATE*********************
So I ended up going because the couple called and said they really wanted us there. I decided to make FH happy and go. We ended up giving them a small gift amount. It was obvious that she really didn't give many invitations out because the room was set up for about 55 people and about 30 showed up and at least ten of that was family.
I could tell the bride was pissed that she paid all of that money and didn't fill up the room. I had a good time at least.
