my cousin has been trying to get in touch w/friend via facebook, txt,.. she wont answer? and i know she goes on facebook..ummm u update ur status
should i just not include her in count (for both shower and wedding)?
CarolAnn721
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I would reach out to her youself either call her or e-mail her and say, since you haven't responded to any of the upcomi9ng events, should I assume you are a 'no'. If she doesn't answer you, than you know her answer.
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I would reach out to her youself either call her or e-mail her and say, since you haven't responded to any of the upcomi9ng events, should I assume you are a 'no'. If she doesn't answer you, than you know her answer.
i agree... i would send out one more msg
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I would reach out to her youself either call her or e-mail her and say, since you haven't responded to any of the upcomi9ng events, should I assume you are a 'no'. If she doesn't answer you, than you know her answer.
i have!
txt facebok msg voicemail
at this point i'm just MAD...
CarolAnn721
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Send me a message stating that due to her lack of responses, she will be counted as a no and you hope everything is ok with her. That's all. Short and sweet.
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Posted by AngnShaun
Posted by CarolAnn721
I would reach out to her youself either call her or e-mail her and say, since you haven't responded to any of the upcomi9ng events, should I assume you are a 'no'. If she doesn't answer you, than you know her answer.
i agree... i would send out one more msg
Ditto - You should call yourself - I've come to find that most people (in my case anyway) didn't like when the bride called and they responded right away. I did leave a message though saying if I don't hear from you by, whatever date, I will assume you are not attending. I didn't leave anything to question.
JAAMS
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There's still a few people who NEVER responded to the wedding. We are counting them as 'no.'
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Posted by latinaj
Posted by CarolAnn721
I would reach out to her youself either call her or e-mail her and say, since you haven't responded to any of the upcomi9ng events, should I assume you are a 'no'. If she doesn't answer you, than you know her answer.
i have!
txt facebok msg voicemail
at this point i'm just MAD...
I wouldn't include her. I found that the people I had to hunt down for an RSVP more often than not said yes and then didn't show. Which made me even madder.
blissgirlnj
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I'd count her as a no, since you have tried to contact her multiple times...I'd be upset too.
ourwedding9510
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This happened to me. I finally sent them a message (private of course) on FB stating 'Hey, we have to give a head count for the wedding. I'm going to assume that since you haven't replied to any of my attempts for your RSVP I am going to put you down as a 'no'. If this is not the case, please let me know by tomorrow. Hope you can come!'
CarolAnn721
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Than there are the people who say, 'You know I am coming!! Why would I have to send the card back?' GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
wenR
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I had guests not respond..period. So I counted them as 'No'. They will most likely not attend.
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I had guests not respond..period. So I counted them as 'No'. They will most likely not attend.
Out of curiosity how many people did not respond?
Anyways, as another girl said I would send her one final message and if she does not respond write her off and consider her a no.