WWYD/Opinions needed please
Ok here's the background:
In grad school there were a group of about 6-7 of us who were really close. One of those girls is getting married in October in Maryland but during school her and her FH were long distance so she was away every weekend visiting him, meaning we never really saw her that much out of school, and I know some of the other girls don't like her so much (she can be a bit annoying sometimes). Anyways after school she moved to Maryland to be with her FH and hasn;t contacted anyone of us really since then. Didn't stay around for a week after grad for our parties/etc and from what I know didn't even call 2 of our friends on their bdays.
Ok so her wedding is Oct 10 in Maryland. We are all invited, but I'm the only one invited with someone (FH) despite the fact that 1 of our friends lives with her BF and another is in a very serious relationship. Most of the other girls don't even want to go at all, but I convinced 2 of them to go with me. Now, FH has a convention that weekend that he COULD miss but realllly doesn't want to, but I sorta told him I'll see if maybe he doesn't have to come to the wedding.
My question is- if I'm the only one invited with a date of all our friends, and its an OOT wedding for us (hotel stay etc.), is it ok if I reply that I am coming but FH isn't, and I can say he has a conference or whatever that weekend?
Does this make sense? What do you think?
In grad school there were a group of about 6-7 of us who were really close. One of those girls is getting married in October in Maryland but during school her and her FH were long distance so she was away every weekend visiting him, meaning we never really saw her that much out of school, and I know some of the other girls don't like her so much (she can be a bit annoying sometimes). Anyways after school she moved to Maryland to be with her FH and hasn;t contacted anyone of us really since then. Didn't stay around for a week after grad for our parties/etc and from what I know didn't even call 2 of our friends on their bdays.
Ok so her wedding is Oct 10 in Maryland. We are all invited, but I'm the only one invited with someone (FH) despite the fact that 1 of our friends lives with her BF and another is in a very serious relationship. Most of the other girls don't even want to go at all, but I convinced 2 of them to go with me. Now, FH has a convention that weekend that he COULD miss but realllly doesn't want to, but I sorta told him I'll see if maybe he doesn't have to come to the wedding.
My question is- if I'm the only one invited with a date of all our friends, and its an OOT wedding for us (hotel stay etc.), is it ok if I reply that I am coming but FH isn't, and I can say he has a conference or whatever that weekend?
Does this make sense? What do you think?
