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You are very much right. I am going through the same thing with my MOH. My MOH even refuses to come down here to go out in the city for my bachelorette party. (She lives near Syracuse) I realize its not easy for her to have 2 kids and be so far away, but she knew what she was getting into when she said she would be my MOH. Oh well. I guess Ill just have to have 2 bachelorette parties (Oh darn.)
i had paid for half of all my girls hair and makeup to get done and i had the worst time with it! first they would do it then not then will again! i had paid it already! in the long rin out of the 8 girls i had only me and 3 of them went! and i paid the differance of it all together. the rest of them looked nice but i did not like some of them! one did not even wear makeup! i also paid for the jewlery and all the other stuff also! tell her she really should get it done with you it will make it feel special to you on you day to have that private time together! see if that works! good luck!(oh yeah one girl also had the 80's look)
kick her a** out of the bridal party i did it and moved on it wasn't easy but hey i can sleep at night and plan in peace...FI and I are paying for everything and everyone and putting up with drama?! NOT
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Ohhh, your sister, thats even harder, I hope things work out. Tell her you don't want to hear and negative opinions, if she doesn't have anything nice to say then please don't say anything!!!!!