XOXO

Nessa79 Posted: Jul 05, 2004 12:47 PM

Re: What would you do?

I wanna see the pic

TracyInQueens Posted: Jul 05, 2004 01:20 PM

Re: What would you do?

34 years old and flipping the bird to a camera? She needs to grow up.

FrescaBride Posted: Jul 05, 2004 01:56 PM

Re: What would you do?

She might be 34 but she acted like a 14 year old even though some 14 years old might have more maturity and grace than hers. If I were you, I'd send her this particular picture as a thank you and let her know that you thank her for being part of the bridal party and for being such a great cousin and be there for your DH. I'd also put something to the extent that you are glad that your wedding was the precursor for her to start showing how she acts her age according to her own definitions and to show how much grace and elegance she has. The pictures show how much you were enjoying yourself and how much grace she has in her. Last but but not least, I'd mention to her....Thanks for being there and showing your true self to the world as you shared with us. It is wonderful to see how some moments are captured in film for us to know what we weren't able to see.
JMO

butterfly20 Posted: Jul 05, 2004 02:54 PM

Re: What would you do?

oh my......
well id probably send her mother a copy.....

and id post the best proofs up on an online album and include that one as one of the first five pictures(so incase they stop viewing it early they will at least see that) and send everyone in the family the link.......

Joey'sbaby Posted: Jul 05, 2004 03:55 PM

Re: What would you do?

Posted by LIPrincess00

I personally would mail a copy of that picture to everyone in the family with a note 'I thought you might enjoy seeing this'.

I agree....

Bunnymonkey Posted: Jul 05, 2004 04:41 PM

Re: What would you do?

I second the notion to send it to her as a TY with a super sweet note inside thanking her for 'showing her true colors.'

Also let her know casually there are more pictures of her than just that one...she'll be paranoid you have more than just this against her, and might just start to behave herself around you.

You have already been the bigger person by putting up with her throughout the wedding process. Now it is your turn to flip her the bird.

Lastly: Post it here! (Can you blur out the Middle Finger?) for us all to get a laugh!

What did your DH say?

LadyPrincess Posted: Jul 05, 2004 04:47 PM

Re: What would you do?

People really know how to spoil tings

You spcial day & yr BM no less

I would be upset as u are & send a pic to her mom - also put one in her thank youj note saying - Thanks for making a POINT abt my day

to you !!